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Allow me to assume NOT.
Then let me ask you, how do you make a cake without flour? How's the grass grow without light? How can you have a REAL relationship without TRUST? You don't have to be a baker, or biologist, or an f'n family psych to answer these stupid questions. OR... Or you can use weird substitutes like chickpea cake or expensive grow lamps for your pathetic pot plants, or an ocean of denial for your 'relationship'. They DO work but, man, not forever, not even close.
Even simple friendship requires trust. Not an open book, just solid foundational TRUST, the most basic ingredient to anything REAL. To survival. Without it, you got sh*t and wasting your time. (And, what the hell; sometimes that's ok, too, I guess.)
Pardon me. I've had a few tonight.
it was a bit jarring for me when she texted "I don't drink anymore, haven't done it in months" then got caught doing exactly that a few hours later, why lie?.
Yeah, I kinda got to the same conclusion, mine kinda depended on me to regulate her emotions and when i failed to do that it was hell on earth. she said that she had my back, but it was always proven otherwise. Actually she did the opposite of hold my back lol
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Fuck dude, i am so sorry... that's horrible. just know that it has nothing to do with you and it's just poor impulse control and lack of boundaries. Keep your head up high and this says nothing about your worth.