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Hello! Non-BPD person here. My boyfriend of 5 years has ugly BPD episodes and behaviors where he directly threatens to shoeslide or plants seeds daily that he'll do it.

This is the part that hurts most and leaves me in panic and major distress since he'll stop responding and turn his phone off. I can't stop stressing when this happens although it has happened a couple of hundreds of times by now.

I was thinking about, what if I stopped showing him that I am in pain because of what he's doing. Will the behavior stop once I stop spamming his phone and showing him how much he hurt me with that?

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What do you mean by shoeslide?

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Oh, god, I'm so sorry...

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