My SO has a reoccurring bulging disc in her lower back, she's had surgery once but the hospital doesn't seem to want to do it again.

This morning she was crying and screaming in pain, I tried to comfort her and she mentioned going to back the hospital, and I said ok.

I sat with her another 10 minutes before she told me she'd be ok and to go get ready for work, so I reluctantly did.

As I was leaving she literally jumped out of bend and starts screaming at me that I'm a fucking joke for leaving her here in pain, so I bit my tongue and asked her what she wanted me to do.

So she turns around and tells me don't worry about it and to go, she can't look at me right now.

I sent her a message apologising when I got to work and told her I'm here if she needs anything. I didn't expect a response and so far I haven't gotten one.

I'm just really not sure what to do, I know she's in a lot of pain and to make it worse she has her period, she that has her feeling worse to. She hasn't lashed out at me about this yet, so I'm hoping it's just a combination of pain and hormones but my mind won't let it go.