i recently found out i have bpd, like in august. i told my coworker about it and she also happened to have bpd too. she’s been diagnosed for years and had years of therapy so she had a lot of advice for me. i told her about the numerous issues me and my boyfriend had because of my bpd and she told me how i should break up with someone who will continuously trigger my issues. she said how her exes didn’t respect her mental health and didn’t care to change themselves to better suit her bpd. now her new bf adjusts the way he talks to her and she’s much happier in her relationship. even her best friends understand her issues and will work around them.

and then she said this “your boyfriend doesn’t unconditionally love you, you will know when someone does because they will help you and work around your bpd.”

so i guess she said that assuming that i have any sort of support like friends or family, but i actually don’t. i have no close friends or family that even care about me. the only thing i have is my boyfriend, and she just flat out said that he doesn’t even unconditionally love me. so that comment has really gotten me feeling extremely worthless like wow, i have no one in my life that loves me enough to deal with me.

that’s all.