i know they’re allowed to post here and i’m not saying all of them are the same (there are some people who genuinely just want advice to help their loved ones with bpd), but i am very tired of the resentment and projection a lot of them do toward complete strangers here. there is such a lack of empathy.

it feels like people who have been harmed by others with bpd in their life take out their rage and resentment on other people with bpd, as if they are the original person who harmed them. no i am not your abusive ex or your parent! we are all individuals and if you have pent up resentment for the people who harmed you please separate that from random strangers online. even if some parts of their situations resemble your experiences, they are not exactly the same. this is a place to support others, not an outlet for your frustrations toward people with bpd. there are some things you will not fully understand; please allow space for that.