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i am genuinely their puppet…my emotions depend on them. my life will revolve around them. it’s absurd. but never have i ever once let any of them know throughout my existence. i just deal with it in silence. so it doesnt even affect them really, it just affects me in every single way possible. im just scared if they were to know, they’d take complete advantage and I’ve had people probably not know they were my fp but definitely knew i was attached and used it for their own gain
To get to remission you need to work on ending the FP dynamic. It's not healthy and it can turn abusive toward the FP. I would recommend you try to learn to become more independent and learn to have healthier relationships.
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Kind of?!?! It's more of learning self love and acceptance. You have to realize how amazing you are and learn to love all your quirks and uniqueness. We have to be able to live by ourselves and be comfortable there to be able to have healthy relationships. We shouldn't need to rely on others for our own emotional well-being, that isn't fair. They have their own struggles and constantly dealing with ours is a lot more to put on them. You have to set healthy boundaries before you meet them.