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Is Love from Someone with BPD Genuine or Just Idealization?
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Hi everyone, I'm co-parenting with my ex-partner who has BPD. I've been told by some people that individuals with BPD are incapable of truly loving someone and that what I felt from him wasn't real love, but rather his idealization of me. Is there any truth to this? I would really appreciate any insights or experiences you can share.
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It can be either. Just like with anyone, look for motives. They are no different in capability of loving. When someone loves you it is selfless. Idealization is selfish.
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