My boyfriend texts me only once in a while when we're not together. Sometimes there's a day or even two when I don't hear about him, he doesn't always even react to my messages (on WA or TG). I said to him previously, that let's text to each other when we're not around each other, it feels important to me. Why does he do this? I don't want to ask from him rn. I'm mad and sad, but I don't want to argue when we're not face to face. I feel so unimportant I could just disappear and he would notice maybe after a week or something. Why doesn't he want to know how I'm doing? We have a polyamoric relationship and sometimes I'm with my other partner, could it be about jealousness? He does not have BPD. He's lightly autistic, maybe, though.