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Just seeing if anyone feels so overwhelmed when someone relies on them too much? Iām such an empathetic person and take on other peoples problems as if they are my own which really affected me over my lifetime. I am a single mum that raises my child entirely alone for 3 years now, Iāve become so independent and doing so well within my recovery journey but I just feel my skin crawl and very agitated/overwhelmed when someone relies on me too much. I have a new mum friend Iāve been friends with her for a couple months now and sheās incredible but she can be very codependent and itās something that has been getting to me more and more as time goes on. She can be very negative about life and the world too, saying things to me like āI use to be positive tooā so shutting down my positivity which gets to me also.. I donāt know what to do at this rate because I know itās only going to affect my recovery journey and interfere with my home life which I cannot afford as Iāve come so far.. has anyone been in a similar situation? What did you do? Again, I raise my child alone, constantly doing therapy appointments, I also work 4 days a week and live on my own with my son so my schedule is already chaotic (in a good way) but Iām just becoming overwhelmed by herā¦
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