My ex who is now my friend triggered me lately but I wanna know if I am overreacting or if this would trigger you too?

He was out of town for a few weeks and recently got back. I gave him a couple Of days to adjust to being home and then reached out and asked if he wanted to go on a walk to look at the fall leaves next week. I wanted to give him plenty of time to get over the jet lag and shit.

He waited 3 hours to respond and just said, “don’t know yet. Maybe.”

This seemed odd, so I asked if everything was ok.

He said, “yeah. I’ll see next week if I want to go. I’m not sure yet.”

I am spiraling. Is this… normal? Lol. He didn’t say “I’ll see if I CAN go” but if I WANT to. We’re not really close enough for that to be normal for us, lol.

Would this trigger you?