I am dating this guy and we’ve only hung-out a few times but are continuing to do so and are making plans consistently. I find myself already starting to split and demonize him over the silliest things and now often avoid him deliberately or will make intentional efforts to be passive aggressive or rude to him when we talk over text. In the past with close friendships and longer relationships i have been able to make a list of all the things I admire about the people close to me and my favorite person to combat these feelings but i don’t really know enough about this man to do that yet. so i just have all of these bitter feelings towards him for no reason and it’s causing me a lot of anxiety and frustration for no reason. any tips on how to manage this and any other advice for dating with bpd would be much appreciated.