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Hi there āŗļø I (21f) am new to exploring BDSM and I came across something I was wondering if I could get some clarity on. What is gentle BDSM? I wasnāt sure if thatās as clear as it sounds, or if itās truly a specific set of criteria. For reference, Iām a femme-bottom, and I really like the idea of being dominated by a femme-top, but Iām anxious when it comes to roughness. It sounds great in my fantasies, but when itās ever come down to acting on it trying BDSM, sometimes I couldnāt let go of the nerves. Perhaps itās because the women I was with I didnāt trust fully and thatās all it is- but I know youāll get what Iām conveying. Is this nervousness something you outgrow as you gain BDSM knowledge/have a trusted domme? Or is it a normal piece of the fun? Thank you in advance āŗļø happy to have a knowledgeable community!
Gentle femdom! Thereās lots of dynamics that fall into this! Itās also what I prefer. Iām heavily into mdlg which is mommy domme / little girl. And itās a subset of BDSM thatās softer, gentler, etc. I hope you find what youāre looking for!
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