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Finding it hard to get back into the kink community after coming out
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Edit: Someone offered the amazing suggestion of adding where I live. I live in philadelphia PA! So there is some stuff but still a little frustrating

Before I came out I was heavy into the straight kink scene. I attended play parties and swinger clubs, I was a high protocol sub to my ex-boyrfriend who was amazing at what he did and we lived D/s life 24/7. I was also training under him to be a dom.

When I realized I would never really love him because I'm lesbian I broke up with him and took time away from kink to really find and accept myself.

I'm now at a point in my life where I'm extremely comfortable in my identity and want to get back into the lifestyle but I am finding it absolutely frustratingly difficult to find what I had.

I do not think I would have a very fulfilling relationship if it did not involve the type of dynamics I have experienced in the past.

There are barely any play parties that are sapphic oriented and I just don't know where to start.

Men that check all of the kink boxes are easy to find but I have absolutely no desire to be with one.

I just really miss participating in kink like I used to. Is anyone else in the same boat?

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