Heya there,

I'm looking for a sub to grow together with, both within BDSM as well as outside of it. A quick introduction of myself: I am a nerdy science student in southern Germany. My main kinks are slave play, bondage, biting, impact play, power dynamics... While slave play is essentially the perfect combination of things I'm after, I'm down for anything with enough power play in it, really.

I have a decent experience with kink and BDSM, but admittedly not as much with vanilla stuff. It is important here to add that I have been diagnosed with both ADHD and autism, which in my case comes with high tactile sensitivity. I have sadly not had a good opportunity to experiment with non-kinky aspects of sexuality in an emotionally safe environment. I would very much like to do so, but it may take a bit of time to get there. But anything kinky that doesn't directly involve sex should be fine. While I am bi, I would prefer a female partner for now to figure out my tactile sensitivities.

I'm looking for someone who is compatible with me and is interested in a kinky friendship or a (potentially open) relationship maybe. So, someone with whom I can do kink as well as talk till 3:00 am with. Someone who I can pull in by their hair for a kiss but also take with me to explore a random castle ruin. Someone who will both kneel looking up at me, but who also wants to look up at the stars with me.

I would prefer a service sub around my age, but I am also fine with other types of subs. Be it the goodest of girls or a brat with an attitude large enough to fight God. In the same manner, someone who is smart, nerdy, talkative and someone who finds fun in life. While neurodivergent in some manner would be nice, it is not a requirement, but what is required is that you are at least capable of and willing to deal with it. Finally, a hard requirement is that you can communicate well.

I hope this is a similar relationship/dynamic that you are also looking for. If so, feel free to DM with some quick info about yourself (age, location, kinks...) and what you are looking for/found with me. And if I am not what you are looking for, I wish you the best of luck on your further search. May we both find what we are searching for. ^^