VANILLA ME:

Religion: Spiritual/Non-Denominational Politics: Moderate Education: Master’s Degree Job, House, Car: yes to all Alcohol: Yes in moderation Smoking: No Drugs: None STIs: Squeeky clean Monogamy or Poly: Monogamous Hobbies: Travel, ATV riding (not mudding), cooking, gaming, movies, gym/exercise, exploring new things such as drinks and food Personality: Respectful introverted intuitive type. Mostly easy going.

What I’m looking for: LTR/marriage preferred. Open to exploratory connections along the way if SSC and drama free. Please state your intent early if you message me.

KINKY ME:

Variety is the spice of life and it can easily be achieved through compromise, communication, and dedication. Further, it can also be achieved within the context of monogamy between two people dedicated to continuing to spice things up in a LTR.

I identify as a soft switch who is flexible enough to swing right or left of the D/s slash or stay in the middle. I believe living within the middle of the power dynamic helps me better understand how my dom or sub partner feels.

The term soft switch is important. I’m not overbearing or disrespectful and I’m not looking for anyone who comes off as such. I am looking more for domination in the form of fun challenges such as us setting up friendly competitions and the winner has control for a day or week or whatever time period (if my partner is switchy). If my partner is sub, I’m looking for the one who is okay doing activities with me that typically might be considered dominant such as pegging. However, I can be more assertive in these situations or take more of a lead role. If my partner is dominant, I’m looking for someone who will listen to me and not become overbearing in their communication to me. A soft domme.

I have discord and fetlife and can share my info if interested. Also, please note that I’m borderline paranoid about STI, accidental pregnancy, drama etc. and need a connection first. I hope my potential partner appreciates this! To me, the relationship is more important than the sex…don’t get me wrong…the kinks are important, but it’s not my main thing I’m looking for.

If interested, please reference something in this post so I know you read it!