[Currently saturated with requests; late applicants please read the postscript]
Hi I’m back :D Since I’ve found a wonderful local kink community and friend group with whom I can explore in-person play, that is no longer what I’m looking for here. I’m looking for something rather specific.
It’s been a tremendous struggle to get enough sleep by going to bed at a healthy time. I came down with a cold and noticed that on days I slept >9 hours, I felt significantly better the day after, whereas on the days following two nights when I only got 9 hours of sleep between them, the cold seemed to worsen unexpectedly. Sleep debt has been an ongoing issue, and for some time now, I have felt that D/s would be most effective at finally addressing it. Details below.
You would be responsible for: * Daily check-ins about my sleep and pleasuring habits (I live in the Pacific time zone) * giving reasonable prior notice before radio silence; I would like daily consistency if possible * issuing and holding me accountable to punishments for staying up later than agreed * providing verbal encouragement / reward for consistent obedience
You stand to gain: * occasional cute pics (check my pinned) from a good boy/girl/pet (your preference) * virtual/symbolic ownership of the keys to my chastity cage * daily conversations with someone who loves to share kink histories and fantasies with little to no reservation * virtual play sessions via messaging (we can switch too!) * control over my pleasuring habits, toy use * my gratitude for helping me turn my life around
My relevant kinks: * edging / orgasm control / orgasm denial * chastity * bondage * gags, oral dildo deepthroating * breathplay
My relevant hard limits: * face pic (sending) * edge play (risking injury or death) * body fluids/byproducts other than those in soft limits * public play (including cage at work)
My relevant soft limits (requires detailed prior discussion): * genital pics (sending or receiving) * maintenance punishment * impact * urine, saliva, and cum play
The list of limits may not be comprehensive so please don’t assume but please do ask!
[P.S.: A handful of redditors have already taken the initiative and built rapport with me over the course of yesterday and today, and while I have chosen one of them to take on this role and so far feel comfortable trusting them to execute it well, I think it is fair to have contingencies. If you still wish to throw your hat in the ring, please at least take the time to tell me a bit about what you most want to get out of this and what you have to offer (such as relevant experience). While I usually love to respond to every inquiry, since I am trying to be better about my time management, I must with a heavy heart refrain from responding to message requests that put the onus on me to find out more about the sender.]
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