I'm an experienced Dominant that's looking to explore a few specific kinks with a submissive partner. I'd describe myself as being a creative intellectual, somebody very focused in life that's still goofy and relaxed, and who is overall highly self-actualized through years of hard work and investment into my mental health.

That's all to say: I've spent enough time to understand who I am and what I need to be happy in life, and especially when it comes to a building a successful relationship with a partner. That's why I'm here because I know what I want and I'm ready to put in the energy to find that person.

I'm not looking for a partner that just wants to be tied up and spanked a little during sex. If you just want that, there are plenty of hookup subreddits and dating apps where you can find somebody to do that for you.

What I'm looking for is to build something with a real person. And by real, I mean somebody that's level headed and able to consent to a dynamic that extends beyond the bedroom. Somebody that's able to be a part of my life and grow alongside me as we explore, together, the depths of our kinky minds.

So, what does this all mean exactly? Great question!

I'm looking for a partner that is my equal. Yes, you will be my submissive, but you will always have my unwavering respect, trust, and love. Your kneeling before me does not mean you are below me. It just means you're the awesome, kinky partner of my dreams. :)

I still haven't answered the question though.

I'm looking for my best friend, my Princess, and (hopefully) my life partner. I'm flexible about how exactly I build that connection with somebody, but I've had a few D/s and M/s relationships over the past ~5 years that have taught me a lot about what I need to have a healthy kink dynamic.

To name a few of the sexual kinks that I'm into... I enjoy Degradation play, Dollification/Bimboification with hints of "mind break" themes, Breeding fantasies, Orgasm control/denial, feminine clothing (think Lolita/kawaii), and power exchange play (which comes in many flavors, including Master/slave or Daddy/daughter).

The "kinky and sexy" side of things is important to me, but it's just as important to me that I like you too. I want to go for a hike and hang out with you with my friends, but tie you up and spank you when they're not looking. I'm a curious nerd that reads a lot of books and Wikipedia, and I tend to get along with other curious folks too.

Who am I? I'm a very career-driven individual with an important, high-stress job that keeps me very busy. I own a car, a home, no kids, I've had a vasectomy, and I live a successful life. I'm doing well in life, both mentally and financially, and I'm looking for the right person who wants to be a part of that journey with me.

I'm a white man that's fairly tall (6 feet) and decently well-built. I exercise regularly and maintain a healthy diet to stay healthy and slim, and I appreciate partners that are excited to be a part of that with me.

For location, I'm looking for somebody that's in the Seattle area, able to travel to Seattle semi-regularly, or willing to relocate to Seattle in the near-ish future (6-18 months).

If this post makes you curious, please send me a message/chat here. I'm happy to talk and answer questions. (And we can exchange photos there outside of the public eye.)

I'm looking for something specific here. Please don't be offended if we're not the right cup of tea for each other. Taking risks is an important part of the BDSM journey. :)