TL;DR: I'm looking for a partner that loosely fits with that description and that's interested in me based on what I've written below. If this post resonates with you at all, let's talk!

Stats:

• 6' tall, white, male
• ~180lbs and physically fit (I exercise regularly)
• Sterile (had a vasectomy)
• Will cook you delicious food tech you how to forage for mushrooms/plants

What I'm looking for

I'd like to use the words, "Little", "Princess", or "Slave" to describe what I'm looking for, but none of those are quite right. Over the past few years, I've tried those dynamics in various flavors and I've found that they're not accurate labels in isolation.

The closest description I can conjure would be, "A kinky intellectual that's confident, feminine, and that enjoys degradation play with a primarily submissive nature."

Also, because my hobbies are often outdoors and physically active, I tend to prefer a partners that are also excited about joining me for the occasional day hike or mushroom foraging adventure. But even if you're not physically up for that today, I'm open to working with a partner to help get them into shape! (Dollification is a big kink of mine)

Who am I?

I'd describe myself as a "Daddy Dom" not because I'm really into age play or DD/|g, but because I find that I take on a much more "paternal" role in the dynamics that I've had.

This often borders on the line of Master/slave (which I've also dabbled in), but it's distinct because I'm not trying to actually strip the autonomy of my partner. In fact, I want the opposite: I want to support my partners with the structure and motivation necessary to further their own personal ambitions.

I've helped a partner that struggled to eat breakfast and exercise regularly build a healthy routine for themselves. I just keep them honest by helping set goals, as well as the rewards and punishments, based on the conversations we have. Everything is consensual and well laid out. (I'm certainly a sadist, but I'm an ethical sadist)

Punishments must have a sting powerful enough to provide motivation. You want to cum on Friday? Better make sure you eat your breakfast! The same can be said for rewards: The carrot must be delicious enough to push through. Maybe there's a new video game you want me to buy for you? Then you better do your (proverbial) homework first!

If this all sounds utterly selfless -- don't worry, it isn't. I enjoy this game a lot and there are plenty of "tasks" that we'll find to mix in that give me the space that I need to feel satisfied too.

Please send me a message if you're interested. I'll share face pics and my FetLife profile once we're there. Thank you!