What I am looking for

Identifying as a dominant I’m looking for either a submissive or a brat. At this time I’m looking for a casual playmate (either IRL or online), but not a commitment or a relationship. This dynamic would center around mutual respect, consistent communication, mature discussions about kinks and limits, and enjoying our time together of course.

Ideally, any potential partner would be around my age and near the same time-zone (GMT 1). Having experience with kink is strongly preferred, but not required. Having a clear idea of how you want to be treated in and out of play is a must though. Getting to know each other and sharing a few laughs and giggles too, before starting any sort of dynamic, is another pre-requisite. I’d love to pick your brain and find out what makes you tick. Depending on the dynamic, we would keep in contact during the day/week, flirt a little and talk about sweet nothings, but also have clearly defined play-sessions as well.

Beneath you’ll be able to find a run-down of some possibly relevant information. These lists are not exhaustive and please feel free to reach out, if you have any questions!

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About me

In general

• Loves watching shows (currently enjoying ‘It’s Okay To Not Be Okay’) and reading books (Wheel of Time book series);
• Likes playing squash and working out;
• Writing is a creative outlet;
• Psychology is a big interest;
• Broad-shouldered and a bit of a dad-bod;
• From the Netherlands – obviously – and near Utrecht;
• Works in a professional environment;
• Fluent in Dutch and English;
• Willing to verify short-term.

Kinks

• Spanking;
• Orgasm denial;
• Begging;
• Light degradation;
• Nipple-play;
• Bondage;
• Toys;
• Teasing;
• Praise;
• Cock worship;
• Forced orgasms.

Limits

• Age play;
• Toilet-related topics;
• Permanent harm;
• Anything underage.