The more I try to label what I am in the BDSM-sphere the further from the truth I get. I take control. I burn in the fire of the moment. I savor the preparation, the art and the controlled chaos of a scene. I make no apologies for who I am sexually. A brutish primal predator. A technical empathetic sir. A patient but firm mentor. I bristle at settling to any one title, but the line about a dom taking more than what a sub offers, but less than what they are willing to give points close to my truth.
I am called a dom, a primal, a sadist, a rigger, a brat tamer, and a daddy. Each scene engages elements of most or all. But I'm always fiercely sexual and in control. How are you at handling masculine energy? I strive for everything I want and am insatiable in attaining it. It pours out when I growl my thoughts and plans into a partner's ear. I find the moments of power exchange to be electric; shouldering the responsibility to take control of one's sensations, emotions, and possibly more.
I love the artistry, skill, and raw sensation of rope in a scene. Your interest in rope is more important than a desire to be bratty. I've had a few 'brats' stop being bratty after a scene with me because they used those actions to push other men to be more assertive. That's never been a problem with me.
I'm 41, 5'11", strong, 200lb, professional, salt-and-pepper beard with a roguish smirk. Not interested in ABDL, BBW, or 'online-only'.
I'm looking for partners with a sense of curiosity and who are in touch with their own desires. Level of experience is less important than excitement and engagement. If this doesn't scare you away say 'hi'. I'll take it from there. And let's have a few laughs about all this.
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