LIFE & LIFESTYLE IDENTITY

Midwestern mentality near the nations Capital. A switchy sadist with a penchant for service and sensory experiences. Scenes and connection / affection are tied deeply to me and work best with others prepared for a multi dimensional play arrangement. Message me if any of the following speaks to you:

~10 years in the Kink Community

Newly embracing gender fluidity

Multi-talented kinkster and educator / protector

Exhibitionist

Relationship Anarchist

EXHIBITOR & EDUCATOR

DC - The Crucible, Risqué - Boot Blacking and Leather Care

Cleveland Femdom Institute, Fire massage and Cupping

Cleveland House Parties, Fire massage and Cupping

Academy of Fetish Arts - Fire massage and Cupping

PERSONAL OBJECTIVES

As a natural top and protector, my objective is to continue in education and service to my bottom / partners fueled by sincere enthusiasm and passion with a focus on an increase in personal excellence and safety.

LIFESTYLE FOCI

Protection of core and foundational values of BDSM

Expression of and maintaining control over my environment

Fantasy vs real life practical application of D/s

Maintaining and increasing personal value in D/s via learning

SKILLS

Boot Blacking and Leather Care

Preferred Impact Implements: Whips, Floggers, Paddles, Wooden Dowels and OTK

Scene preparation (tool/toy placement, hardware, room arrangement, lighting, sounds, scents)

Post-scene wrap up (cleaning up, returning living conditions to “normal”, negotiated aftercare)

Protocol levels – low/casual to high/formal

Japanese bondage – Kinbaku (Shibari)

Tool/toy handling – procurement, cleaning, maintenance, proper layout, storage (including rope bundling)

Creation of new tools and toys, plus tool/toy improvement via upcycling, recycling and remaking

Written contracts & assignments (including formal petitions for service and ownership)

Personal management and Life Coach

ACTIVITIES Below is a non-exhaustive list of activities in which I have directly participated (if it’s on this list, I have done it or had it done for me as an assignment):

Impact play with implements including, but definitely not limited to: floggers, canes, crops, paddles (leather, wooden, rubber, etc), whips, belts, straps

Impact play with the hands, specifically spanking and slapping (ass, thighs, pussy, face, feet)

Bondage, light to heavy (rope, chain, bondage tape, clothing, wrist/ankle/thigh/thumb cuffs, bed systems, door systems, spreader bars, etc)

Predicament bondage

Hair bondage

Hair pulling

Collar and leash

Crawling (on command, via pulling, etc)

Orgasm control – by force and/or denial, including edging (via voice, touch, magic wand, etc)

Sensory deprivation (sight, touch, hearing via masks, music, etc)

Anal/ass play

Anal hook

Body worship (including hands & feet, massages)

Humiliation, erotic humiliation

Fisting (vaginal)

Slapping (face and body)

Choking and various other forms of breath play

Bastinado

Biting

Gags (bit, rope, cloth, ball, bondage tape)

Hoods (open-face & full head)

Collars (formal, casual and play; leather, chain, chrome and cloth)

Tails

Terror play including knife play

Sensation play (electroplay), including: Violet wand, Twilight wand, TENS unit

Sensation play (temperature), including: hot wax, figging, ice, spicy/stinging rubs, essential oils, fire play, frozen chains Sensation play (sharps), including: Wartenberg wheel, metal claws, Vampire gloves, knives/swords

Resistance play/FSRP (forced sex role-play aka rape play)

Role-play – eg, rough play as currency scene, etc; animal role-play (puppy play)

Functional objectification (use as various types of furniture, etc)

Sexual objectification (used as a sexual being)

Discipline & punishment

Bootblacking

Shaving (head/face/pubes), foot care & other intimate body care

Clamps (including clover, nipple-to-clit, clothespins, chopsticks, etc.)

Marking – temporary such as bruising to longer-lasting like scarification (Carving specifically)

Multiples (sexual) – obviously as a triad this is common, however we have organized and attended orgies and house parties

Multiples (S&M) – co-topping, receiving (from commands to impact play – dual flogging, etc. – to sexual acts)

Multiples (S&M) – co-topping, giving

Submissive/slave kneeling (et al) positions

Anonymous play

Adult toys (suction bulb, insertables, etc.)

Large furniture (St. Andrew’s cross, wooden pony, stockade, spanking bench, kneeling bench, massage table, etc)

Suspension (ceiling hook/overhead systems, natural formations (Trees & Rocks))

Voyeurism & exhibitionism

Public play within the scope of kink (dungeons, play parties, videoing)

Pictures and video production (scene capturing)

Meal and drink service

Verbal commands

Physical commands (motion, signal, hand)

Written commands

Journaling (kink-related like scene retelling, task completion, etc)

Furniture privileges (privilege of furniture use and use of other conveniences)

Pony Play (Ridden)

Abduction Roleplay, including Woods Burial

CNC not already mentioned above.

LIMITS

Defecation

Blood or Fluid besides cum and saliva.

Body puncturing beyond 1/8”

Hook suspensions

Underage, including Roleplay

Cheaters

Play without Aftercare or Affection.

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