( 𝙉𝙊𝙏𝙀 ; I will not respond to one-liners, or low effort responses. I put time and effort, rewriting, proof-reading, etc etc. Trying to be concise.) Long-written post incoming, buckle up and enjoy!

Hello, my name is Aspen! I'm 19, and I'm looking for a LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP/DYNAMIC! I post here very frequently, and I plan to do so and keep my head up, til' I find what I'm looking for! (Preferably, my sweet, caring sadistic big.)

( 𝙉𝙊𝙏𝙀 ; There are photos of me on my profile, and when I'm comfortable with you, I'll show my face. )

I do have some musts/requirements, if you are to pm me! • Please don't pm/interact with me if you are older than 55, and please be 21 to pm. | • Please have experience with/willing to learn about neurodivergent people. | • Please be 420, body modification, and mental health friendly! (You dont have to participate, just don't be mean about me doing so.) | • And lastly, please be experienced in kink/bdsm with research, and in a practical sense if you are to pm me. (this is bendable depending on the person.)

That concludes all of the things I'd like!

₊˚𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙢𝙚! ꒱

Hello, my name is Aspen, as we know. I'm an autistic switch (with a sub lean, though I can be whatever suits you). I'm a very energetic, sweet and bubbly person! Because of my ADHD, I'm a very hyperactive person, and I enjoy seeing/making others happy! Even when things aren't the best, I'm usually always smiling, even through the dark humor. :) I'm a very, clingy individual aswell.

My hobbies include, but aren't limited to; baking/cooking, history & periodic eras, theatre, arts n crafts, sewing, wood-working, and so much more! My special interacts, are bugs, and on occasion; insects aswell. My favorite bugs and insects are, Bagworm month caterpillars, Death's Head Hawk moth, and lace bugs! I can (with consent), go on and on about them, and my interest for them came about as a child, and I've been studying them ever since.They are my comfort special interest, and with that, I even have a lunar moth stuffed animal, that I am currently writing lore for, he's my sweet boy and I consider him my son!

I know physical appearance is important for some, so physically; I'm small and petite, 4'11, a little bit over 100 pounds, I am mixed (Black and Japanese), little doll. With big sparkly brown eyes, that light up with excitement when I see something I want but know I shouldn't get, a slim baby face, slender neck with very sharp defined collar bones! Small frame and chest, a small tummy, somewhat thick thighs, and a nice butt. I have also been told, my baby face is accompanied by a big beautiful smile! I have a more alternative style of fashion; Gothic, punk, indie, fairy like, and much more. It depends on my mood. But for the most part, definitely not "normal/average", for where I live.

More nerdy facts about me, include but definitely aren't limited to; I'm trying to get into Star Wars,, I'm doing a marvel marathon pretty soon (join me?), and I'm currently having a Harry Potter marathon. I'm heavily in psychology and true crime; it fascinates me about how the human brain works, and seeing how cogwheels turn and do funky things. I really, really, really, REALLLY like history and periodic eras alike, and I enjoy seeing the fashion differ in history, from wars, to major history events, and just to evening strolls. At the moment, my brain is lodged onto the Dee Der and Gypsy Rose Blanchard case as far as true crime goes , and I'm currently hooked in Regency era; how about you?

₊˚𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄'𝙢 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙢𝙚 𝙧𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮! ꒱

I'm (as stated in the first line), looking for a long-term dynamic, that can not only be sexual, but romantic and intimate! I'm looking for a king, loving, and nurturing partner who isn't just looking for a hookup, or a quick fix/fling. I'm looking for something real, something authentic, something that feels so heavenly, and angelic as if it's a fairytale kinda love.

( 𝙉𝙤𝙩𝙚 ; If you live near by, or even in the same city, I'd love to go on a sfw date to test the waters and get a feel for each-other. I'm also open to relocation if/when I'm comfortable, and if/when it comes in the future!) 🎀

I have around 7 years of experience in general BDSM, due to trauma; and due to that, I'm on a personal journey/adventure of healing, and in 4 days, I'll be 2 years clean of self harm! Back on tract, I (as I said earlier), would prefer someone with some experience, though again, I'd be willing to bend with this depending on the person. I'm looking for a relationship that can feel like those old love songs from the 50s-70s, a enchanting relationship, accompanied by the intimacy of a dynamic! I'm looking for something like more along the lines of cg/l, and add some other values like (Dom/sub, Pet/Owner, and possibly Master/Slave.) Structure is really important to me, and it's important that it's implemented as much as possible, in any dynamic that I enter with. I love to have a schedule, rules, daily tasks, and a punishment and reward system; general stability is a must for me.

I should say now, I'm a very clingy person who has dpd (dependent personality disorder), and have a very affectionate; " Can I strap onto you like a koala ", attachment style. If you do not like this, or can not reciprocate this to a degree, please save us both the time and stress, and scroll. I like effort and consistency in a partner, and especially people who can accurately identify, and put into words what they want and need out of a relationship and out of a dynamic; I do not want to be an experiment/experimental gain. I strongly prefer descriptive partners, and those who are also very talkative, wordy and concise; I have my moments where I can't put into words how I'm feeling, and having a partner like that, who just knows is very comforting, and provides a sense of safety for me. My #1, love language is letters from the heart, appreciation in massive amounts of words, in big groups!

Some things that are/will be deal breakers, and the things I am not looking for are; people who are looking for affairs. I do not condone cheating, and if you do, you are JUST, If not WORSE as the cheater themselves. I am, not, looking for something short-term, nsa, or fwb. I'm not looking for someone who wants to be discreet; I get it the internet is very scary, but it's not fair to me, to give you very special, and near-dear to me, type of information and not be reciprocated in my efforts. I'm not okay with, heavily traditional/politic/religious people (preachy types) , anti-lgbtq , or ableist folk.

In a relationship, I'd say I admire someone who isn't serious all the time, and can be silly/goofy, and laid back type person. I like confidence (not to be confused w/ cockiness.), and I like my partners to be comfortable with who they are and what they have to offer (even if you aren't, reassurance is my thing.), that being said, someone who isn't confident to have me on their shoulder/isn't ashamed to say they are with me. Someone who can be proud of me. Someone who can communicate and is good at mediating, as well. If you can't handle a hyperactive, pretty, and anxiety ridden little who is ALSO clingy and extremely affectionate? Please stop reading, and scroll away. <3

I'm a very sweet, caring, loving, and otherwise; super duper affectionate person who is very much, a people pleaser (within reason.) I will always try my best to communicate, and accommodate you, your needs, and also your wants to the best of my ability! Like I said earlier on in this, I thrive off of seeing everyone else thrive and be happy. I like someone who isn't busy, day-in-and-day-out, and someone who will make time for me. I'm very much a hopeless romantic, and once I attach to you; thats it, you've got me in your hand forever. I'm a huge experimentalist, and recently have been dipping my toes into abdl slightly, and so far have been enjoying it. A big perk of dating me is i have a very detailed, and in depth kink list! And more importantly, and very thought out limit list.

To wrap this all up into a big balloon, your first message should be a DETAILED introduction of yourself; and in it, please answer at least one of the following; your favorite insect, your favorite musical, or how your day was yesterday? Let's call and get to know each-other perhaps?

Even if you're not interested, I'd love to be friends. if not, have a good day and thanks for reading! 🎀🌈