I work in a male-dominated field, spending most of my time telling men what to do. It's tiring. After being capable, organized, and clever for hours, all I want to do is turn my brain off and be somebody's obedient fucktoy.

I respect your time, so I'll put my expectations first. Ideally, you're: -Age 22-29 -In CST or EST time zone -A dom or dom-leaning switch -Not partnered (ethically non-monog and partnered poly count as partnered) -Not conservative -Able to eventually call or send voice memos

(So that is to say, any body type, gender identity, sexuality, etc is hot in my book. Bonus points if you have a good voice, though)

Hey there, I'm a subby switch looking for a long term online dynamic filled with dirty talk, orgasm control, and intellectual conversations about kink. One where we take time to get to know each other before it gets sexual. I'm short, white, plus size, have dark hair, pale skin, and gray eyes.

I've been in the scene for 3 years both as a sub and a domme, and lately I've been focusing on building my toy collection and learning how to edge. The only problem is, I have no self control. I'm not a brat per se, but when left to my desires, I can't help but give in to that urge to cum. But I want to earn it. Beg for it. Complete tasks and send proof I've been good. I crave the mild frustration that comes with giving another person control over a part of myself that often overpowers me.

But more on that when we talk. My SFW hobbies include cooking, reading, writing, textile art, and all types of board games, video games (mostly strategy or resource management), and role playing games. I'm a huge sci-fi and horror fan, but I fuck with a good documentary or early-00s discovery channel show every once in a while. I constantly push myself to learn or create new things. Fair warning: though I'll submit to you in certain situations, I don't plan to tone down my intelligence in everyday conversations for your comfort.

I know I mentioned toys and orgasm control as my main interests right now, but I'm also into: anything sound related (praise, light degradation, hearing you moan, etc), a certain type of pet play, primal play, bondage, multiple/forced orgasms, light pain, training for anal or for large insertions, and mutual joi. If you're also a switch, I'm happy to share my interests when I'm in domme mode, but lately I've felt subby the majority of the time.

Soft Limits: DDLG, sending explicit photos/videos, high-pain play, some CNC (blackmail/obligation), breath play, (since you've read this thoroughly, include "petrichor" somewhere in your message to stand out from people who disregard this)

Hard Limits: TPE, exhibitionism, age regression, all CNC not covered in my soft limits (i.e. violence/drugs/sleep), blood, scat, watersports, findom or sugaring

I'm excited to hear from you~