Since I value my time and the time of others, here is a list of potential reasons why you shouldn't bother messaging me. No hate/judgement if that's what you're looking for, but I'm not it. If you make it past that list, introduce yourself! I can already tell we'll get along quite well :D

• I am not someone you can play once with then ghost. If your "post-nut clarity" makes you lose all interest in the dynamic for any amount of time, please do not apply.

• I adhere to select gender norms at my own discretion.

• My anatomy is mostly unmodified AMAB and will almost certainly stay that way

• My voice is relatively deep and strangers gender me as "sir" 90% of the time I speak

• My hair goes down to my nips.

• My presentation spans from moderately fem to moderately masc

• I'd be fine being called Sir, Miss, Master, Mistress, good boy, or good girl during play (bonus points for cute gender-neutral nicknames)

• I am mildly autistic, which happens to make me kinda bad at non-verbal communication and excellent at explicit communication. This also makes me more blunt/honest than most people.

• I cannot play during work hours because of the nature of my job

• I think people's needs are likely too varied to expect one romantic partner to fulfill all of them. Unless we live in a book where the author decided that I would meet someone whos needs and traits near-perfectly match mine, I do not think it is reasonable to be exclusive partners. That said, I have no problem being loyal to our agreements.

• I have no sexual history, and I might be sex-positive grey-ace despite my kinks. Arousal, intimacy, and orgasm are goals, whereas putting my parts inside your parts is not so much a goal as it is one way to accomplish the goals, among many many more interesting ways.

Now that that's out of the way, here's the fun stuff :3

My biggest kinks (all these are giving and receiving) are bondage, gags, edging / orgasm control, short-term chastity/denial, mild pain, and I'm curious about a bunch of stuff I haven't had a chance to try yet. I was a diligent observer/learner in the local kink community where I went to university, but I do have a little bit of practical experience, including lots of self-tying, a rope practice partner (briefly), a few online dynamics (I've been dom, sub, and switch a few times each). If we have any sort of relationship, whether as simple friends or as complex as getting into a dynamic, it will be very important to me to know how you feel about our interactions. There's a lot of time I wish to invest in meaningful relationships, and I'd appreciate knowing that we're both satisfied with our time investment in one another.

If you care what I look like, there's a pinned post on my profile from back when I first started playing around with my gender. I have a small stockpile of more recent pics that I was using to tease a former sub, so if we chat and get along, I can show you more ;D I don't expect you to show me anything unless we plan on meeting in person, but I do expect us to explore one another's minds and histories.

And before you ask, yes this is just a lightly edited version of my personals post from 9 months ago. That one did well, and the one last week didn't; go figure.

Messages and chats are open!