I am looking for a male dominant partner: my other half; boyfriend "by day" and dominant "by night". You're at the age where you know what you want (or perhaps you always have known, you just hadn't found me yet), you're planning for retirement in the next 10~ish years (or are already retired), and you don't have any children living at home (or at all). You aren't already married or in an open relationship. You are hoping to find a long-term relationship partner in person (long-distance okay at first but meets and relocation (me to you or you to me) must be possible. Your end goal is to commit to one woman only (other men negotiable).

You're ready to dedicate time to me: to get to know me inside and out; talking, dating, playing, etc. Then, taking that knowledge, you will help me achieve my best self and train my submissive to perform her best for you in the way you prefer. You accept that there are core things about me that will not change but many other things that are moldable/trainable. You embrace bodily fluids and all of the messes that come from our intense time together. Your cock is large enough to block my airway or challenge me as you fuck my throat (6" ). You aren't allergic to cats. Bonus if you're interested in hypnosis, are a practicing hypnotist, or desire to train with audio cues or gestures. Second bonus if you like receiving back and shoulder massages.

Instead of an egg with a fragile shell, think of me as an egg with a stone shell that's much harder to crack. My submissive self is tucked away in my mind waiting for the right match to be fully developed and trained to be all you need and fulfill all of your desires. I do not allow her to come out unless there is at least a small connection or bond established. My submissive self would respond best to a sensual, gentleman, or daddy type dominant. She would not respond well to a disciplinarian type (too much of that in my real childhood).

Sometimes my submissive self splits off into different submissive selves. For example, if the person she connects with has a daddy side, she has briefly explored a liddle (age that varies from 5 to 12). I don't require little time, though. I believe she adapts and changes based on the person with whom she bonds, except for the core parts of me that don't change.

On the play side, she's interested in further exploring blindfolds, restraints, electrical play, carotid play, breath restriction, clamps and clips, wax, or other types of non-impact pain play, being slightly naughty in public, being trained to respond a certain way to songs, sounds, or other trance-like inducing gestures, being turned into your puppet who responds to your commands and wishes (spoken or unspoken), and she's excited to hear about your kinks/fetishes and what you like as well.

I like going to new restaurants to try them out, I enjoy listening to live music in a more quiet setting than a concert like a small bar, streaming NFL games or other shows while giving massages until my fingers can't move any more, using marijuana to relax before play time at home, going to art and other types of museums, plays and musicals, and sports bars for an NFL game when the season is on.

I have moved, on average, every 2-3 years of my life (military dad at first and then it just became part of who I am). To me, home is where the heart is and I love seeing new places (whether for mini-weekend trips, full-on vacations, or actual relocations). So I'm not "married" to Milwaukee, Wisconsin (where I live now). I'm open to relocating after 2 years if you live elsewhere and we get that far. If you live somewhere with hot, humid summers it will have to be you coming to me or us both picking a new place to grow old and adventure together. Me and humid heat don't get along.

Looking forward to hearing from you.