I am a 32 year old married Dom who has been exploring D/s relationships for the last 7-8 years. I am 6'3" and in pretty good shape and have blonde hair and blue eyes. I would consider myself a daddy leaning dom. I take being a dom seriously and love to build the connection. Kink and all of the other stuff means so much more with a connection. I want to learn about you and bring the best out in you as well.

What I am looking for:
I’m hoping to find someone where the connection is easy and where conversations come naturally. Someone with similar interests is always a plus, and someone who wants to build a connection. The nature of my job allows me to check my phone regularly and communicate most of the day. In relationships like this communication is key so I want someone who is able to communicate often and openly, ideally where we can keep each other company all day/often and speak on the phone/video relatively regularly as well.

In terms of D/s, I am always very focused on the day to day control. I prefer control to be much more than just with sex, but also outside the bedroom. A relationship that goes towards TPE, where I have control over many aspects of your life including clothing, workout times, schedule, etc with kink intermingled in all of them. My goal is to learn everything I can about you including what makes you tick sexually and use all of that to make the dynamic as pleasurable as possible for you and me both.

Kinks:
Control that I described above which includes tasks and rules. Exhibitionism/semi-public play with tasks catering to them. Being sneaky or risky in public or around people. Bondage, impact play, anal, spanking, and orgasm control to name a few more. I have many others I haven’t listed, and not matching on all kinks is definitely not a dealbreaker.

About you:
I don't have many expectations in terms of who you should be, although I have always been attracted to women who are fit or are at least pursuing fitness lifestyle. Curves or a toned body are a plus, but having said all that, it’s not an end all be all so please don’t let that stop you from reaching out. Submission and the mental connection are the biggest attraction for me. I am happy to verify myself early on in the conversation and will expect the same from you. I prefer communication on either reddit chat or telegram to start and to verify with pictures pretty early on.

If you have made it this far and any of this has piqued your interest please reach out (mention your favorite super hero movie if you've made it this far). Whether you’re experience or completely new to BDSM and have been wanting to dip a toe in please reach out. I am excited to meet you!