Good day to you and I hope this message finds you well.
We are an traditional (Old Guard, High Protocol) style house located in Spokane, WA seeking to bring back the days of Respect, Honor and Reason. We seek to bring back old school values to a community that seems to be focused on how good someone looks or what gender someone is, etc. For most of you, this will seem a pointless and worthless (perhaps dangerous) pursuit. But for those few who seek out this type of structure, this is who this post is for.
This is not an attempt to kink shame or to make an argument against what you personally believe in, but rather to explain the values this House follows. If you agree with most of these points, then you may very well thrive here. If you do not, then we wish you well in your search to find your Owner.
We believe that to form a bond between Owner and Submissive, you must look past the physical and form the bond based on the Submissives willingness to serve and the Owners willingness to support those who do. This means that you are willing to submit to a man or a woman (or both). If you are limited by what sex your Owner is, then you are not who we are seeking.
There are a lot of people that feel this lifestyle is all about sex. That sex needs to happen all the time and without it, the relationship fails. We feel this is not correct. Yes, while sexual play is fun and we do engage in it, it is not the end all and be all of what the lifestyle should be centered around. If you feel that sexual gratification is the main purpose of BDSM, then you are not who we are speaking to in this message.
This would be something that starts online (unless you live in eastern Washington of course), but has the focus of making it a live-in position after some time of getting to know each other. To be clear, you would need to be willing to move the relationship to being in person within a reasonable (based on what is going on in your life currently) amount of time.
A collar would be offered to the House, but not until 2 and a half years pass. This is not for those who want immediate results, but someone who understands the concept of working towards something that they thirst for.
We are open currently to accept the following.
- Submissives (Slaves/Kajiras/Pets/etc.) who are not collared to someone.
- Switches as long as they realize that to the House, they are always to be in Submissive mode.
- Any gender (Service to an ideal is not based on gender).
- Any age (Above legal age of course).
- Any location (though the eventual goal would be to be a live-in).
- Polyamorous people or someone willing to accept that most of the people in the house are poly. Not swingers, but actual Polyamorous people.
- People who are comfortable with themselves and are open to being in public with a collar on.
- Those who are called to a higher purpose of submission besides the sexual aspect.
We are NOT looking for....
- Someone who feels that BDSM is about trying to getting laid.
- Someone who feels BDSM is all about how you look.
- Someone who feels that they know everything and refuse to learn new ways of seeing the world.
- Someone who judges others.
- Someone who seems to always have a LOT of drama in their life. Some is ok if you are willing to work on it.
- Someone who is using BDSM to escape their life and have it be micromanaged.
In regards to age, we find that people under 30 are not mature enough to handle what we are offering. You may very well be the exception that proves the rule however. If you feel you are, on your initial message, please explain why you are exceptional enough for us to bring you on board. Some examples include the following...
- A love of the Marketplace books. That attitude and feel is what we are about (except for the real world slave trading of course).
- Intelligent people who can complete tasks with minimal direction.
- Has been a live-in Submissive before.
- Professionally performed one (or more) of the following tasks before: Computer coding, Accounting, Research, Project Manager of some kind, Cooking, Military service, Butler/Maid.
Make sure to mention these (or something else on the level of the above items) in your initial mail should any apply to you.
If you wish to speak more about the House or if you have any questions, feel free to message us (not chat please). We have also set up a FAQ to answer common questions that we get. We do have a discord that we monitor closely and we would be happy to give those interested that address after a few messages back and forth upon request. Please note that your first message (and others, but mainly your first) is your first impression. Please make it a good one. Take the time to explain why you would make a good fit, your experiences, your age (and something exceptional about you if needed), etc.
Even if we aren't a good fit for you, we wish you the best of luck finding an Owner.
House Pepperjack
"It may sound severe. Almost anti-erotic. Until you see 2 people, owner and owned, existing in a complementary relationship where each suits the other like balances on a delicate scale. Until you feel the energy of their rapport, you cannot understand how they fulfill each other, take and give in ways no negotiation could possibly express. Then, you will understand that singular intimacy which drives such people on their search for perfection. It is beyond orgasm. Beyond love. It can almost be called 'Rapture'." - Chris Parker
P.S. We notice that almost every time we post, we get downvoted, but no one informs us as to why. In our opinion, this is strange. Why do you downvote, but don't bring your concerns to us about it. It's quite cowardly to just downvote and not explain why or give us a chance to explain what may be a misunderstanding.
So, if you get this far into reading this post and have decided to downvote, then consider this a challenge to send us a message as to why you are downvoting and allow us to respond to your concerns. I can promise we will be respectful to reasonable concerns.
Downvoting and not saying why is childlike and just proves our point that this lifestyle could use some of what we offer.
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