32 [M4F] Connecticut Switch looking for F Switch.

I'm looking to connect with my partner on an emotional & maturity level, with similar kink and vanilla interests. I'm looking to find someone who I can share the good times and the bad and still come out stronger. Learn and grow off of each.

I want to take this new adventure with you and see where it takes us.

However if we're dating, I want to be your second priority.

I want your priority to be you, your life, and the future because my priority right now is me and mine.

Finding happiness and security alone is crucial to find it together.

"Love is an offering"

To love is not to possess the other person or to consume all their attention and love. To love is to offer the other person joy and a balm for their suffering. This capacity is what we have to learn to cultivate.

"Honest Love"

Honest love requires empathy. It is a sharing—of joy, of pain, of laughter, and of tears. Honest love makes one’s soul a reflection of the partner’s moods. And as a room seems larger when it is lined with mirrors, so do the joys become amplified. And as the individual items within the mirrored room seem less acute, so does pain diminish and fade, stretched thin by the sharing. That is the beauty of love, whether in passion or friendship. A sharing that multiplies the joys and thins the pains.

I'm not into hard-partying or drinking.

If you're a daily drinker or get blasted every time you touch the bottle we would not work out as friends or partners.

Here and there is fine just understand your limitations.

I do smoke Marijuana and have my medical card. Would like you to be 420 friendly too.

I'm a "Switch" with many spectrums, If I feel we are compatible you'll be pleased with my performance as a Dominant or Submissive at least I hope you will be.

If someone asks if I'm a top or bottom I say: "A pancake ain't done till it's filled on both sides."

My Dominant side is a Daddy, Alpha Wolf, Pet Handler, Master, Primal Hunter, and a bit of a Sadist.

Am I a perfect Dom nope I am not still tons to learn as everything is Fallible.

My Submissive side is a Pup, Little boy, Ab/dl, and maybe a few more things I've yet to discover within myself with the right partner.

However, if my sub side is left forgotten for too long it can cause feels and the relationship to degrade eventually.

I'm just saying am a "Packaged Deal you get a buy One get Two sale."

I'm not saying I need to sub a lot or all the time just here and there is nice you know. As in the past, I've barely had any partners who indulged my Submissive side. Only had one partner who was my master and I was Stormy her pup. Yet that was ages ago.

Stormy is short for "Stormageddon Dark Lord of All" You'll get it if you watched Doctor Who at all.

I hope this isn’t a turn off I'm just being honest in where I stand. I want to find someone who can accept me as a switch.

Maybe after we chat for a while and some level of trust & honesty is established and if things go well we can meet up in the real world maybe have a bite to eat or go somewhere public have fun and learn more about each other. Take me to a forest I've never been to before and let's explore its secrets.

I'm better at talking than typing honestly.

Who knows our friendship might evolve into something more beautiful I can only hope.

Likes:

I'm basically a Geek Adventurer.

Playing PC games.

Hiking in the woods and outdoor activities when the weather permits.

Bonfire nights is amazing.

There's the Naugatuck State nearby to where I live like 20 min drive away. On one side there are a few small lakes to go swimming and hiding a few nice chill spots to listen to nature or read a book.

I'm an Animal Lover. Dogs are my favorite pet. German Shepherds are my favorite breed, Yet I really want a Tamaskan. They look like Wolves. Amazing right?

Currently, own a Yellow belly slider turtle named Tokka. Cowabunga dude! 🐢 Turtle Power!

I love cats too.

Dungeons and Dragons 3.5 & 5th edition.

I've played in multiple campaigns over the past 14 years.

I will talk about my old campaigns & characters like Urgal my Half-Orc Frenzied Berserker or my Radiant Servant of Pelor named Joven till the sunsets and rises again.

Reading a good fantasy novel:

The Legend of Drizzt Do'urden by R. A. Salvatore based in the Forgotten Realms, The Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling, Eragon and The Inheritance Cycle by Christopher Paolini, The Song of Ice & Fire / Dunk and the Egg by George RR Martin,

The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings trilogy by JRR Tolkien and many more.

Card games like Munchkin and Cards Against Humanity and a bunch of board games.

Favorite songs: Disturbed "Pain Redefined" Trivium "Capsizing the Sea / In Waves" Coheed and Cambria "Welcome Home" The Offspring "Your Gonna Go Far, Kid All That Remains "Two weeks"

My kinks:

Pet play, primal play, switching, mommy dom/little boy, daddy dom/little girl, abdl, diapers, impact play, kissing, spanking, rope play, regression, wolf play, oral sex, role play, remote-control devices, power exchange, lactation, intelligence, butt plug tails, eating pussy, collars, cuddling, biting, clawing, breastfeeding, power exchange, age play and most important of them all is aftercare.

Yeah I'm DTF

D - Down T - Too F - Finally be in a relationship with someone who actually cares about the relationship and cares about my mental health and supports my dreams.

Cause I'll always do the same in return.

Hooray!!!! You did it you made it to the end and read my whole post.

("Achievement unlocked" Thanks for being amazing and trying to get to know me.)