Hey! I'm looking for a Domme/Switch (I'm a switch, but heavily lean towards sub) that I can get to know well, and build a relationship with - I'm not looking for a kink dispenser. I have a small amount of experience serving in-person, but I'm also open to trying most things once, with a kind, caring, and understanding partner. Getting to know each other first before anything major is an absolute must for me.

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I'm an initially shy guy, but once I'm familiar with a person I do tend to open up. I'm dominant in my professional life, hence liking to "give up" control in my personal life. I'm a bit of a geek, and love anything involving data, science, tech, but outside of those geeky interests, I also love hiking, cars, and going out for one too many drinks.

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Professionally I work at a consultancy firm, working from home. I'm 22 (23 in the next couple of months), relatively tall at 5ft 11", and slim with fluffy ginger hair. I consider myself to be reasonably attractive; but I'd let you be the judge of that. ;)

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I'm looking for somebody ideally local to me (York UK, or within easy travelling distance) who has these traits:

• Intelligent and open-minded
• Between 18 and 29 years old
• Single
• Looking for a personal connection (platonic or not) first before kink

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As mentioned above, I have some experience serving IRL - but majority has been online for the last four years. I have plenty of kink knowledge and experience from online, here's my kink list if you're interested. I have an array of toys already, mainly chastity cages, plugs, dildos, female clothes, clamps, ballgags etc.

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If you've managed to make it to the bottom, first of all - take a break, you deserve it! In all seriouness, please send me a message or chat on Reddit with the first word being "octopus" so I know you've read the full post. You don't need to send a photo immediately, but would need to verify before we meet (I'll do the same.) Please include a little bit of information about yourself when you message, I tend to reply relatively quick - so hope to hear from you soon!