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39 [M4F] Relocate to #New Hampshire for balance of intensity
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TheCalmHands is a male age 39 looking for a female in New Hampshire
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The relationship I’m offering will be balanced. Not because I’m slightly Dominant/sadistic and slightly affectionate. I’m extremely Dominant/sadistic as well as extremely affectionate. I love deeply and passionately and because of that I am strict and cruel. This requires that you are also affectionate and masochistic.

You’re 30-48 years old. You’re intelligent, leftist (feminist), you like juxtaposition, you have a sense of humor, you are working on yourself (therapy, meds, meditation), you don’t want children. You are service oriented, you like exploring the dark and the disturbing, you like to be touched, you want to be a live in partner. You either don’t want to work or you want to work from home. You like cleaning. You are a strong woman who doesn’t take any shit and doesn’t let anyone give your partner any shit. You submit to your partner because you’ve taken the time to trust them. You don’t need to be punished ever because if you do something your partner doesn’t like you feel terrible. If you need to be hurt you ask for it and you know you’ll almost always get it just how you like it.

I’m easy to talk to and you might get the impression I couldn’t possibly bring the kind of intensity I’m describing. I invite you to ask me about that when it’s appropriate. Though my instincts are to move quickly I know that I have to take this slowly. We will take the time to get to know each other before getting too sexually explicit. We will exchange g-rated pictures fairly early on. We will discuss meeting eventually. Long term the goal will be to cohabitate. I live in a house in the woods. I have four cats. One of whom is curled up next to me as I type this.

If you’re intrigued please send me a chat or a message.

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39
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a female
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