I’m a cute, sensitive, thoughtful, ethically non-monogamous woman with room in my life for a romantic D/s relationship. Kink takes a tremendous amount of chemistry, connection, and trust for me, so anyone who engages me should be ready to chat for a while before meeting and date for a while before becoming intimate.

My non-sexual interests include being in nature, shopping for cute dresses, watching scary movies, reading creepy books, painting for fun, and trying new vegetarian restaurants. We should have some overlapping interests, but they don’t all have to align.

My kinky interests can vary based on my partner. But some consistencies include:

• I love touch. I love to be held, cuddled, massaged, stroked, have my hair played with, teased, grabbed, moved around, held down.
• I enjoy being bossed around. I can be quite bratty about this and appreciate someone who can remain firm when necessary and cave indulgently when not.
• I would eventually like to establish enough trust to have my partner make some decisions for me. I love to have a partner I can look to for guidance.
• Effective aftercare involves quality time, physical affection, and verbal affirmation for me. But in the interest of full disclosure, I am needy in these ways even outside of kink.

I enjoy some forms of impact play, restraint, degradation, and more, but would rather talk about these with someone I’ve formed a preliminary connection with.

As for what I look for in a partner, I primarily want someone I can admire: someone who teaches me new things, shares my values, respects me and others, and is emotionally available enough to guide me. I mentioned I’m in search of a romantic connection and will emphasize that here. I’m not interested in anything casual or platonic. I prefer someone my age or older who lives in or near Seattle proper.

If you have compatible interests, send me a thoughtful message telling me about yourself, what you’re looking for, and your experience.