I am looking for a real relationship, not just D/s or M/s, or something even less complicated like a scene, but an honest to goodness relationship with someone kink-positive or kink-friendly. I am looking for a woman who is ready to settle down but not in a way that means we don't go out and have fun. I also want to do D/s, whether that's in the bedroom or throughout our daily lives. I want to build trust with someone and have a deep connection. I want something that is meaningful and also fun.

So, with that out of the way, some further details. I am a Dominant. I have also been a Master in some previous relationships. I am currently somewhere in between. I am happy to discuss specific interests related to kink but you should at least expect that I am on the left side of the slash. I understand the responsibility that comes with taking on that role for someone who is looking for structure, accountability, and consistency and that is what I offer. I also want to enjoy scenes, get rough, be playful, enjoy the breadth of what kink can offer. This may also mean that I want to be little spoon sometimes when I need that kind of comfort. I know what I want, so let's discuss.

I also know that all relationships are partnerships first and foremost. Both my partner and I must be invested for it to work. I hope to find someone with whom I can share this journey.

I have a stable career and goals. I work from home full time so I yearn for more social interaction and spend time with friends when available. I own a house and enjoy indoor and outdoor hobbies such as gardening, woodworking, cooking, reading, working out, video games, movies. I am a huge nerd and have a game night with my friends. I would love to hear about your interests and share stories. I love when someone spins a good yarn. I try to work on myself and learn whenever possible. I'm not huge on travel but I have a few destinations in mind.

I know this sounds more like a normal dating app profile than something for this sub, but I wanted to try this out here again.

I want to be clear, I want a relationship where BDSM is a focus or at least with a partner that has an open mind.

If that sounds like it's you, please message me.