Hey there reddit! 31-year-old man here, and I'm looking to form a LTR with a likeminded switch, dom, or sub. I love playing both the dominant and the submissive, so I'm open to forming a d/s relationship in either role (and if you identify as a switch as well then all the better). You can find my kinklist posted down below⏤that is where all the good stuff is after all⏤but I've included a little bit about myself and my kinky interests to provide a little more depth for you. I live in eastern Washington and ideally you would as well, but if you live in or around the PNW then that's something we can work around. If you think we could get along both inside and outside of the bedroom, message me with a little about yourself and your kinks, and I'll try to get back to you as soon as I can. :)

So a little bit about myself, I'm 31, white, 5'7", and thin. Full time student. I have a bunch of tattoos and some piercings, so if that's not your thing then sorry to disappoint. I love music and film. My favorite genre of music is alt/punk rock, while my favorite film genre is dramedy. I also love comics, manga, anime, and video games. I'm definitely a huge nerd in that regard, and always wish there was just more time to read and watch all of the amazing stuff out there. I'm a very laid back person, and certainly very introverted. Not that I'm a quiet person, just I generally enjoy being around smaller groups of people. I am certainly up for going out though since I'm vaccinated, and I fully expect you will be vaccinated as well. Whether it's drinking and dirty dancing (not that I'm any good) or hiking or laying on the beach any time spent together, in my book, is time well spent.

Like I mentioned earlier I'm hoping to find a long-term d/s relationship, but I do think that starting out as friends and seeing how things progress from there is always the best approach. I can be very needy and clingy, always wanting attention and pets and kisses, and I really enjoy a partner who clings to me as well. I want to find something where we feel a shared love for one another and want to be around each other all the time. Not that I don't enjoy having time for myself (I like to game and read and whatnot), or that I wouldn't want to give you your own space, but I just like the type of relationship where we're the first and last thing we think of every day (and also that we keep each other helplessly horny all throughout the day 😈) At the end of the day, a wholesome d/s relationship is exactly what I want.

As a dom I tend to be very strict as I expect you to listen and obey my orders, although I do like some bratty push back from my subs (especially in a role play or cnc type scene). And that doesn't mean I expect you to be a mindless slave or anything like that, in fact I encourage you to be silly. Playfulness is one of my favorite qualities in a person. I also would consider myself to be very understanding though. It is very difficult to submit, to give yourself up to someone fully and trust them to keep you safe, and so I take that very seriously. I'll always communicate with my sub and make sure they're feeling safe and happy in a scene, and that we're both able to find the utmost fulfillment out of our sex life. Some of my favorite kinks include tease and denial, edging, orgasm control, ruined orgasms, spanking, nipple play, cock worship, role play, and cnc.

As a sub I'm all about gentlefemdom, being teased and tormented all day before finally being allowed to cum, and then getting all the "good boys" and cuddles before drifting to sleep. 🥰 Not that I don't also love when my domme switches to being very strict with me, and in fact I relish strict orders and the unwavering control of my domme. I want a domme I can absolutely adore and obsess over who leaves me a dripping mess throughout the day with all the teasing she gives me, and has me always thinking about her and aching to cum. Some of my favorite kinks include tease and denial, orgasm control, edging, ruined orgasms, prostate milking, pegging, feminization, and pussy worship. Thanks to everyone who's read this far and I hope to hear from some of you soon!

P.S. DMs only please, I won't respond to chats :)

Kinklist: https://i.imgur.com/LPXAKD5.png and https://bdsmtest.org/r/9rQgTY99