Tired of conversations that never go anywhere? Tired of being ghosted because the guy almost got caught cheating or felt guilty? Tired of 'MisterDomlyDoms' that talk a good game but have zero practical experience, and are clueless when it comes to negotiation, RACK/SSC play, and aftercare? Tired of guys with nothing but a dick pic on their profile, obviously wanting nothing more than to get their dick wet after watching 50 shades?

Welcome.

I'll cut to the chase. I've been around a good long while, and have over a decade of experience in all manner of BDSM dynamics with an extensive menu of kinky play and huge toy chest to match. I have the kinky resume and verifiable repertoire to prove it.

I'm well established in my local scene, and I'll happily get you in touch with current play partners so you can vet me, and verify what I've said yourself. Vaxxed. Current STI results will also be happily provided on request.

Me: What you'll get is a recently retired military, Dom, Master, gleeful Sadist, and adventurous MF'er. Fiercely protective of those I care for. I have my shit together. I've done the work in therapy for myself. Looking for both fun casual play partners and rope bunnies, and a special one to be my dedicated, collared, masochistic sub and primary nesting partner to share all of this new post-army life with.

You: Secure in yourself, sub/slave, masochist, service oriented, rope bunny, personally and professionally capable, has hobbies and things to do that make you happy and are fun to share, tomboy, drama free, emotionally mature. Understands what you need and want from a relationship and dynamic, and are able to communicate those needs and wants openly. You understand empowered submission, where you openly communicate with me as a teammate, and then allow me to naturally lead our dynamic and day to day life. Major bonus points for dog and outdoors lovers, knowledge of the Gorean lifestyle, and being highly intelligent (talk nerdy and STEMy to me).

Without a doubt, the sweetest submission is given by self actualized individuals.

I don't do high school bullshit like drama or ghosting. I promise to always openly communicate, no games, and if we're a good match I'll tell you without mincing words, including an offer to meet face to face in a public place to give our chemistry a shot. If we're not a good match for at least casual play, I'll thank you for your time and send you on your way.

If you're ready for something REAL, or something real fun (I love giving tastings of play you haven't experienced yet), then by all means take the necessary steps outside your comfort zone to live your best life and get in touch. Your fetlife profile link and clothed vanilla picture gets mine. Local IRL only (an exception could be made for a very special sub willing to relocate in the near future).

A glimpse of me, and a few examples of my handi-work. https://imgur.com/a/99KODfK