Hello!

How's it going? It's been some year so far, hasn't it?

... yeah. sigh

I'm looking to take my mind off of things in the real world and guessing that many of you are out there are looking for the same thing. Perhaps we can help each other out?

About me: 42-year-old, 5’7”, long haired Vietnamese-American software developer who is eager to talk about something besides software development. In the bedroom I enjoy being extremely dominant once I'm comfortable; I think D/s requires chemistry and trust to be established with a partner rather than something to be jumped into right off the bat so rest assured that my first message to you won't be "ADDRESS ME AS MASTER, SLUT" - we can work our way up to that :-D

What I'm Looking For: I'm open to either something casual or something serious (and anything that falls somewhere between). Looking for someone local to California at the very least, but open to chat with someone online if you're interested in meeting up in person at some point. Also would like to exchange pics early on if we hit it off because A: physical attraction is important and B: getting catfished suuuuuuuuuuuuucks. Please let me know a little bit about yourself before jumping in with the kinky stuff!

As you may have guessed, I'm most compatible sexually with women who are submissive in the bedroom and

• enjoy being treated roughly

• enjoy being degraded verbally

• are eager to please

but this list is not exhaustive and I'll be more than happy to discuss others.

Random SFW Facts

• My best karaoke song: Careless Whisper by George Michael. Good Old Fashioned Lover Boy by Queen is a close second.

• Last five shows watched: Peacemaker, Picard, Ash vs. Evil Dead, Moon Knight, Obi-Wan

• Last book read: I've been reading a lot about self-publishing erotica on Amazon lately so to research I got a Kindle Unlimited subscription and have been reading a bunch of trashy fantasy erotica. Yes, this is my deep dark secret I can only reveal to strangers on the internet :-D

• Last animal activity watched: My cat batting around a blueberry that fell on the kitchen floor.

Looking forward to hearing from you!