Hello lovelies! First, thank you for reading my request. I am hopeful that I can find someone that I can connect with in a mutually beneficial way. Hopefully I can make this uhhh not sound like a sales pitch.

I am polyamorous and in a few established relationships so although I do want to build a wonderful dynamic with you, there are other individuals in my life as well.

I am looking for a gentle Dom/me of any gender to build a relationship with. Hopefully something long term but of course we will see how things develop between us. I need someone who can take control in ways that will benefit my life. I struggle with lack of structure, and I need structure to be successful in the different areas of my life. What type of things do I want you to take control of? Examples include: tell me what to eat, have a mandatory hydration quota each day, forced schedule walks. I literally want you to be my guide. Be the mommy/daddy/whatever name you prefer that is absent from my life that I so desperately need. I want to build a relationship where I feel comfortable surrendering to your will, as I know you ultimately know what is best for me. Reward or punish me, Your pet, as you please.

This doesn’t mean it can’t be sexual and fun in that way too ! ~Some~ of the kinks I enjoy include orgasm denial, nipple play, some pain play, body worship, acts of service (for you of course). There is more and I’m an pretty open as far as kinks go. Always looking to expand and explore new things!

Hard stops: scat, urine, blood play, but boundaries are the most important thing to me ultimately. I’m okay with going out of my comfort zone, but I’m not okay with crossing any boundaries- yours or mine.

As I mentioned briefly above I struggle with lack of structure and that’s mostly because I wear a lot of hats and I tend to be a busy person. I would prefer to primarily chat by text of some sort, I can do video messages as well but…we can talk about preferred communication later. I am not opposed to IRL connections but I am okay with starting and/or staying online.

About me: I am trans and non binary (He/They pronouns) and I guess primarily “femme” presenting. I am 5’7’’. My hair is longish? And locked. I am dark skinned with a slim build. I live in Florida. I enjoy nature, anime, books, plant care, true crime documentaries, cooking, and of course exploring new interests as well. I am pretty passionate about social issues. I would describe myself as a quiet person who is extremely introverted, but also still has a bold personality. I’m a driven individual who is a leader and strong caretaker, but I have no one to take care of me :( . I am the care taker of my household, in a leadership position at my job, and I’m starting to lose sense of who I am as a person….

So what do you say? I would be honored to be devoted to you. I would be thrilled to have you shape me in to a better human. I desire to be better and most importantly I desire to serve you.

Thank you for your time! I hope to be chatting with you soon :)