No idea how this will be received, but here goes.

I've been in the kink and D/s lifestyles for over 20 years. Yes, I'm an old fart. I've experienced and explored pretty much everything there is to explore, I feel. So I'm not here for a particular kink, or just to get my end away. I've been there, done that, stained that t-shirt.

Something is missing. I feel like recent dynamics have gone through the motions a bit. I want to be surprised, to find myself wanting and craving more. Wanting and craving something different.

I definitely have sides that verge towards the more extreme. With a masochist, I'm sadistic af. With a degradee, I'm degrading af. With a kinky slut, I'm kinky af. I'm not fond of puke or scat. Pretty much everything else is on the table.

I have a dad bod, I'm bearded, I'm generally hairy, and my cock is completely average. I'm married. These are all my caveats. Be aware of these before messaging me.

If there's something there that strikes you, that makes you think the might be a connection, I'd like to hear from you.

• don't try to sell me stuff, not interested
• I'm gender agnostic, but not looking for anyone with a penis
• I'm not going to rush to anything, but once a connection is built, I would expect to add pics, voice, vid on occasions
• once connections are established, and if we seem to be getting on well, I would expect to move off reddit chat.
• I have very open tastes. Your body type and personal style choices will not be a problem for me
• I am mostly online (currently):

Eastern: 5pm onwards Pacific: 2pm onwards UK: 10pm onwards, and til 1pm ish Australia: 7am onwards, and til 10pm ish

If you're only available daytimes in Eastern, it will be tricky. But I'll also try to make things work for the right connection.