First a little heads up: This is gonna be a bit of a lengthier post since i want to do this properly and not have to explain in chat/messages.
Still here? Great! First let me introduce myself: I am (as stated in the title) 21 years old, male and from germany. I am happy to share some more information should we get a good chat going.
Who am i and what am i looking for?
I am a somewhat experienced Dom (both online and IRL). What does that mean? I know the best practices and know my way around a rope but there ist plenty of stuff i still wanna try out at some point. So there is plenty to explore if we match well.
I am looking for healthy BDSM relationship. Meaning: If you can communicate openly with me for whatever reason, we wont be a good match since communication is key for both parties to have their fun. I also don`t expect you to send pictures of yourself. Don't get me wrong, if you do i will be very happy but i hate when people write "must send pictures" since in my opinion that is up to the sub to decide (at least in the beginning ;P).
If you are willing to learn, i don't care how experienced you are. After all, every D/S relationship is different so there is only so much you can carry over anyway. I also don't really care about how you look as long as you aren't massively obese. I myself have what some would call a dad bod ^^
For me "being a Dom" isn't just about doing kinky stuff or ordering someone around. It mainly is a huge responsibility. As i see it, my primary objective as a Dom is making you feel good and safe. So don't hesitate to talk to me if there is something on your mind which is not kink-related.
Speaking of kinks:
https://i.imgur.com/q4FkGMs.png
This is a list i made specifically for the propose of this post. I do have another pinned on my profile which i made for DPP (Roleplay) so there obviously are a few differences. In between those two, you should get a rough idea of what i am into but things like my huge love for chokers aren't reflected in either one. So if you have questions, just ask. (Remember the thing about good communication? Yea? Good. Because i can't stress enough how important that is for a working BDSM relationship :D )
Ideally you would be around my age (18-24) and located somewhere in europe (Matching timezones). Also if you are from germany you go to the front of the line ^^
If that sounds interesting to you or you just have some questions about BDSM in general, feel free to message me via chat or DM. I will try my best to answer everyone as soon as possible.
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