Hello,

I've been lurking here for some time now and even get some good responses back but I think it is time to search for what I want specificaly.

Like I said in the title, I am a 35 old Dom looking for someone to be online and if everything goes right, IRL. So what I am looking for is someone that, with patience and time, could be my slut. Let me be clear, I don't believe that men are better then women or anything like that, I want someone that love herself so much that can, again with trust, let herself go to please a man, by please I don't mean necessary sexual pleasure, I want to dominate you.

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I put Teacher there cause I believe that everyon here is unique, so I'll not expect you to be the perfect sub right of the bat and nor do you expect me be a bossy man either. I want to teach you how to pleases me and learn how can we both be please afterwards. It is a whole process, takes time, confidance and trust so I have patience to teach anyone or even be surprised by anyone in the process.

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Also, I put Sado too cause I am very into harsh BDSM, you don't need to be or even know what it is, I can guarantee to you within the time we spent if I notice you are more into harsh, I'll be harsh, but if it is not something to you I rather have a trustful and nice sub than just someone that are there for the pain and nothing else. Also, I want to disclosure here that I firmily believe in the aftercare process, I am a Sado, not a psycho and if you are into that you need to want a responsable man rather than just a toxic perverted been.

After explain the title, let me say what I am looking for and see what came from it: I want a slut, what means I don't want you only for me, I want to teach you how can you be pleased with punishments, so I want someone that want to be shared, or at least like the idea of please someone else than her partner, so feel free to be married, have a boyfriend or even a plural relantionship, the only thing I want you to know that I am the only dom you have, I can't make rules and punishments only to another guy come and overrule everything I've done. That beign said, I am not telling you that you will start having sex or whathever with a lot of man, what I am saying is I'll be a strange in your life, that will not be married to you, will not be your boyfriend and you probably will not introduce to your parents either, but, everytime you think about me, you will have the tingle feeling. Everytime you please someone else, I want you to think about me, even if you just want to please yourself, it will be me that will pop into your mind. I need someone I can trust, someone I can goes by about my day and ended up punishing for be just what I want you to be. So this will not be out of the bat like I said, I'll not demand anything from you and you should not expect anything from me till we really connect.

A little bit more about what I want and you, I want someone positive, someone that can see the world not just like a shit marble of terrible decisions, but a playground that we will explore together. It is important to me that you love yourself, or at least are in the process to learn that or even open to do that because I don't believe again that anyone is better than anyone, I want to be there to help you but please, keep it positive, discover what makes you enjoy the dynamic and share with me, and than accepct the punishment for beign outspoken and repeat everything over again till total pleasure.

So, almost nothing is out of the table here, maybe you are a mom looking for fun and discover another side of you, maybe you always want to be a slut to someone but never had the chance, maybe you are just starting your journey into BDSM and think I can help, even if you think there is more to say than what I put in this ad, reach me and let's figure it out together.

Notice that I didn't put a physical description of you and me, that is because I want someone that falling for the ideia before the body, I can verify myself and want you do be able to do the same, but more important than the body,to me, its the inside. Also, I know this is very long, and very not revealing, but, I want to assure you, that I am not a soft dom, or even a switch of some sort.

So yeah, my messages are open, feel free to reach me, I hope to hear about you soon.