Male, straight, athletic (amateur competitive). 5 years experience as a Dom. 5’11, 175lb, green eyes, soft lips, nice smile. College educated. A sweet mix of sensual, primal, Daddy Dom, with a slightly sadistic side. Seeking local ongoing and occasional play partner. Looking for in-person play; zero desire for online.

Serious emphasis on consent, limits, safe words, and safe play.

The following is a typical play session with me… 🥰

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I first attach my soft ankle and wrist cuffs to your naked body. You lay back and I secure you spread-eagle to the corners of the bed, your arms spread out above you, legs apart, and you listen as you are firmly restrained with soft clicks from every cuff. Your body is exposed and vulnerable, your breasts, armpits, stomach, and pussy completely defenseless. The most sensitive and fragile parts of your body are completely at my mercy.

I secure my blindfold over your eyes and give you a soft kiss, letting you lie there and quietly experience your helplessness. I tell you how completely vulnerable you are - how it would be so easy for me to hurt you - but also how safe you are because I have nothing else to do but take care of you while we are together.

From there I usually start with long, slow, drawn out foreplay…. my fingers and lips and tongue exploring every inch of your body. You are blindfolded so you never know what is coming next.

If you prefer gentle play, I will edge you slowly - that is take you close to orgasm with my lips, fingers, tongue, toys, and body (I have a wonderful thick cock that can fill you)… over and over, letting your sexual energy build as you strain against the restraints, your body still spread out. Finally, when you beg me and ask me to let you cum, I let you cum, curling your toes and arching your back.

If you prefer rough play, I will fuck you while you are bound and hold your throat gently, letting my primal side take over and biting you softly or pulling your hair. I will press my body down on you and you will be helplessly fucked while your arms are above your head and legs spread apart.

I like using my hands to spank you, dig my fingers into your armpits and breasts, twist your nipples gently, and then slowly and softly turn back to pleasure you with the lightest of touches to relieve any pain.

I can mix pain and pleasure, confusing your body and increasing all of your sensations. Light licks and sucks with my mouth to your clit, followed by my palm smacking into your pussy. Followed by more licks… and another smack. The pain hurting more each time, but the relief of my soft licks taking you instantly back to pleasure.

We can progress beyond that as you desired…. I have floggers, a paddle, nipple clamps, hot wax, I am very skilled at electrosex, gags, etc. I can bring whatever fantasies you have to life ☺️

Pretty much it depends on what intensity you desire. We can do anything from the lightest and most erotic touches, all the way to pushing your physical limits to where you approach tears and feel completely helpless and alone, or exploring darker parts of the psyche like cnc if that’s what you wanted. I have had subs all along that spectrum. We only explore more intense places after trust is established.

When we were done and you were either at your limit physically or if we naturally ended things with you happy and exhausted I would scoop you up in my arms and hold you tight and cuddle you for as long as you needed. Kink play can be intense, and I would be there to look after you, check in with you the next day, and care for you.

• I am poly/open and typically only have time for occasional play (once every 2-3 weeks, weekdays actually better availability although weekends can be made to work) with one sub at a time. I like to form an ongoing caring bond with my sub. Mutual care and adoration without attachment. As I am poly I don’t mind if you have other partners.

• I am very athletic, take good care of my body, and am attracted to subs who are generally in average-to-good shape.

• I am very affectionate, and play best with subs who love touch and affection.

• I really enjoy introducing those new to kink. I don’t care about your experience level, but I do care that you are a good communicator.

• I have switched before and do enjoy exploring male vulnerability, and would love to explore that too only if it turned you on.

• Age doesn’t matter. I have played with subs -20 and 10 years. I quite enjoy age gap play because of the intense inequality in the power exchange it creates.

• Vanilla interests: outdoor adventure, running, hiking, cycling, dogs, backpacking, writing, history, and science.

• No blood, needle, or toilet function play.