Hey there! I’m a 5’4 sassy submissive with wild shoulder length blonde hair (this changes often but on average it is blonde) and blue eyes. I am in the Middle Tennessee area. I’m a bit of a Smart Ass Masochist, and I crave discipline (seriously, if you’re not into discipline, I’m not the sub for you). I’ve been in the BDSM lifestyle for going on 7 years now. The last 5 of which has been irl as well as online. I’m an avid reader, but I despise assigned reading. My other hobbies include crocheting, video games, jigsaw puzzles and walking.

Here’s what I’m looking for in you: experienced, creative Dom/me with a sadistic side, who likes to micromanage subs and help them be better versions of themselves. I need you to be familiar with Drop and Aftercare. I need you to be well versed in discipline (like I cannot stress this enough, without discipline I do not get what I need out of a dynamic). But I’m not looking to become a slave, I crave banter, and laughter and teasing. I can get a little bratty every now and then, and I need you to remind me of my place. Bonus points if you can video chat/ talk on the phone.

I need someone to help me stay accountable to work organization, staying hydrated, and not pushing off my school assignments til the day they’re due. I need help making and sticking to a plan to take care of myself every day. I have an incredibly long list of both kinks and limits, which I would love to discuss in detail with you. But for now, my top kinks are discipline, verbal degradation, humiliation, and orgasm control.

One other thing you should know is that I went through a major medical trauma last year and lost a big part of my submissive headspace. I’m just about starting over with it, so patience is appreciated.

Also: I am ethically non monogamous with my husband, who knows and supports that I am looking for a Dom, but is not interested in being part of a dynamic. If that is a deal breaker for you, I understand and wish you the best finding what you’re looking for. Otherwise, I look forward to reading your introductory message, which I’m hoping will include your favorite emoji 😊.

Eta: I don’t use kik or Snapchat, but instead prefer to use the telegram app.