TL;DR:

I'm looking for a submissive partner on the east coast US (preferably) or online who is knowledgeable about kink, diligent about physical and emotional safety, and willing to put effort into a healthy relationship. If you are interested in a creative and highly deviant Dominant partner who is attentive, experienced, in touch with himself, willing to be vulnerable, and driven to improve himself while supporting you, I recommend you keep reading and maybe get in touch :)

About me:

I'm a 27yo cis white male currently living in VA. 170lb, 5'9", hwp with short/maintained facial hair, and attracted to folks who present feminine to androgynous and are hwp/somewhat active. Personality wise I would describe myself as an introverted, goal driven goofball and knowledge sponge. I try not to sweat the small stuff and am generally laid back, though I get more intense when it comes to work and goals. I'm a huge foodie and big into video & board games, cooking/baking, absurd humor, D&D, kayaking, and podcasts (I'm an avid consumer of anything history/nonfiction).

I put a lot of emphasis on objectivity and ethics in my life, especially when it comes to relationships and healthy/nontoxic behavior. I am currently single and open to monogamous or non monogamous relationship of any ethical sort, hopefully something that could start online but eventually become in person. I love long conversations about life goals, fears, our childhoods, passions, etc. The sooner we can jump into deep personal topics like this, the better!

Kink:

My Dom tendencies are rooted more in mental than physical dominance, emphasizing praise, positive reinforcement, intimate understanding and fantasy fulfillment. Bdsm is a creative outlet for me, and I want in a partner a medium that I can study intimately, a muse who I can spoil with scenes crafted to pull at every submissive string within them. I want them to feel known and understood, to be someone they are enthusiastic to gift their obedience and service. And when we aren't in scene, I want to be able to have long and vulnerable conversations about consent, aftercare, needs, and desires.

We can go more into specific kinks if we end up talking, but my absolute favorite kinks are pleasure control (edging, denial, forced orgasms and overstimulation), teasing, gentle humiliation mixed with praise, anal, and training (protocol, tasks). I'm nonjudgmental and open to experimentation as long as everything is explored ethically and with safety in mind. My limits are toilet play, blood/severe pain and ABDL.

If any of this sounds like something you desire in a partner, feel free to get in touch! I really appreciate (and only tend to respond to) longer, more detailed messages with a description of yourself and what you're looking for -- it shows me you're willing to put actual effort into our conversation. :)