I was so fortunate to have found a lovely, respectful, consistent rope top to play with over the last couple months, but alas, they are moving due to a fantastic promotion. I’m so happy for them 🥲 but now my Monday nights are free!! (Don’t worry, I have other days/night available if you always work or play Trivia on Monday nights)

I am still very much looking to connect with folx interested in casual rope play! For those of you who are wondering, "what does this look like?", I'll give you an example: I come over (sorry I can't host at this time!), probably crack open a La Croix I brought for myself, ask you about your day while I start to stretch in my yoga gear. Maybe we throw on a tv show we both enjoy, or some music- though full disclosure I have a hard time resisting dancing ;) and when we're both ready you can start to tie me up! I'm doing more research myself to find ties that I'm interested in trying, but I'm super excited to collaborate with someone else and try out their ideas.

A little about me - polyamorous, pansexual, sapiosexual, sub-leaning switch, witch. I am bratty, artistic, doting, adventurous, and painfully honest. Aside from needing to bust a move, I also enjoy long walks in nature, knitting, cooking/baking, being annoyingly zen during highly competitive board games and then winning them, making people laugh and then angrily asking them what is so damn funny, museums, live music, spontaneous travel, impromptu sing-a-longs, and learning about serial killers and cult leaders.

BDSM/Kink wise - ROPE is at the top of my list :D; IMPACT PLAY is up there as well ;) (Let me give you a tip, lead with these) Additionally: sensory deprivation, Orgasm control, pet play, edge play (RACK it up!), spiritual bdsm,...

Limits- watersports/scat, anything that causes lasting bodily harm, race play, cruel humiliation and/or degradation.

I know the emphasis of this post is mainly me wanting to be a rope bottom, but I would be down to switch and top from time to time as well. I already have people in my life who ask me to tie them so generally I would prefer to be the bunny but, I also get a lot of meditative calm through shibari practice. Here’s what a night of self tying looks like for me- chest compression harness and peach tie

You- ideally over 28yo, living in NYC, with the ability to host. I would love to meet attractive individuals with engaging personalities, emotional intelligence, great communication skills, and a desire to have fun without fear of intimacy (spoiler: I am into intimacy) As a poly person I am open to romantic situations unfolding organically, but friendship is definitely important to me as well! (If you have 0 experience, I'm sorry but I'm not in a place where I can teach you without some kind of exchange of goods/services. Most of what I've learned since the initial mini workshop I attended has been through YouTube so get some rope, read up on safety protocols, practice on yourself, be proactive!)

So that covers most of it for now. Looking forward to hearing from all of my fellow rope enthusiasts in NYC. Send me a message if you feel like we would get on! Tell me a little bit about yourself! Let me know if you have your own rope, what basic ties you know, any ties you would like to work on - really you can't go wrong telling me whatever you want about your affinity for rope. I will respond positively.

Big sorries to anyone looking to have any kind of penpal situation. this is for IRL only. <3