One day, I'm gonna be going out into that big wide world to search for my one true slavewife love. But, before I can, I need to learn how to be the MasterHusband such a person deserves. I can read all the literature I want, but ultimately, I need to practice.

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Hello, my name is Thomas. I'm new to dominating others, and I'm looking for someone to practice with. This isn't a normal dynamic per say; I'm rather interested in other new people who are trying to learn with me, and who are willing to try new things and make mistakes with me while we learn what we enjoy and how to do what interests us.

You Are:
A submissive or switch who either is also inexperienced or is willing to be patient and constructive with my inexperience.

A feminine person. This includes women, trans women, femboys, femme enbys, men with a feminization kink, cute androgynous people, or really anyone who enjoys behaving in a feminine way during play. If you think this might mean you, it probably does.

Able to give and receive constructive criticism, with the goal of improving yourself and your partner (me).

Not afraid to tell me when you've got problems with how I do things, or aren't enjoying my contributions.

Open to making a new friend, and maybe staying friends once the dynamic is over.

A person who operates within 3 hours of Pacific Standard Time (That's UTC 4 to UTC 10).

Within the ages of 18 to 28.

I Am:

A 22 year old pansexual male dominant.

Interested in growing as a person while still enjoying the kink

A big fan of clear communication, schedules, and planning ahead

Flexible and able to adjust to your real-life commitments, within reason

A bit of a goofball.

Prone to ramble.

This Dynamic is:

100% Online. There is no expectation that we'll ever meet in real life. We can meet if it interests us both at the right time, but it shouldn't be an active goal.

100% Low Commitment. You don't need to be keeping track of me all the time, and vice versa. We'll discuss when and why we'll prioritize each other, but it shouldn't overwhelm our lives. Most importantly, if either of us decides we want to be done, that'll be that. We both need to be okay with the dynamic ending at the drop of a hat. I'm not going to randomly ghost you, but I (or you) might wind things down pretty quickly when it's done.

100% Anonymous. Real names, pictures, voice, and anything else identifiable is not required. I'm okay to voice chat when circumstances allow, but I won't be sending pictures.

Constructive and Fun. Of course we're gonna play, but we're gonna play to learn. That means trying new things, providing feedback, and being okay patient with each other as we learn.

On Discord. That's just how it is.

Non-Exclusive. More about that below.

A Note About Multiple Partners

The low-commitment, learning-first nature of this dynamic probably means it won't cover all of out kink needs by itself. So, feel free to pursue other partners! I may pursue other partners as well. I also wouldn't consider myself polysexual/polyamorous (at least I don't think I am); if I meet someone who I want to commit significant emotional attention to, I will probably end our dynamic.

A Note on Limits and Experience

I'm open to trying new things that neither of us are familiar with, but such outings will be experimental in nature. If we haven't tried something before, I'm going to require that we go really slow and really low, even if it gets in the way of the fun the first few times. It's also okay if you're not sure where or what your limits are, but we should both assume limits exist in regards to things we haven't tried. Not sure if you like XYZ kink? Then unless we're actively trying it out, we should avoid it.

Remember, sex is like rock climbing: safety first! We need to be extra careful with everything for this dynamic to not blow up in our face.

Kinks

Ah yes, the Fun Part(TM)! I love Subservience, Outfit-Control, and Objectification. I want to dress my partners up how I want, rewarding them when they obey me and punishing them when they resist, forcing them to accept the fact that they're mine to enjoy. Sexual chores, domestic servitude, furniture duty, and occasionally performing as a torture doll are all on the table. Lingerie, maid outfits, silks, and lurid costumes will be the absolute most modesty a slave of mine can hope for. Obviously these things don't translate 100% to an anonymous, online dynamic, but figuring out how they do is part of the fun! In the past though, this has often manifested as Tasks, Rules, and Long-Distance Domestic Service.

I also like to be cuddly and warm during aftercare, and make sure my partners feel appreciated and cared for after play. Not just because they deserve it, but because it helps me feel like I'm a positive part of their day. I want my subs to feel cared for after play, even after punishments or more sadistic scenes. This usually means being attentive and affectionate immediately after a scene, plus a longer check in a few hours later.

As for every other kink under the sun, I'm into a lot of stuff that I didn't mention for brevity, and I'm pretty open minded. I'm not particularly cruel, but I can certainly be more or less sadistic. Want me to own your orgasms? Sure! Interested in hypnosis? So am I! Trying to roleplay something really depraved? All for it! Wanna pretend cuddle? Abso-FUCKING-lutely! Really, with the exception of the limits below, I'm open to hearing out any kinks you might want to try. Just remember that our distance will limit a lot of what we can do. Creativity and patience will probably be needed for most kinds of play.

The only limits I do certainly have are scat, blood and gore, bestiality, ageplay, and DDlg. And, of course, we might also discover that I (or you (or both of us)) have more limits than we knew about, so be ready for that.

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If that's sounds good to you, let me know by sending me a PM (the orange envelopes) and letting me know what your experience level, kinks, limits, and potential learning goals are! We'll have a quick chat, then probably a longer discussion, and then move things over to Discord when we're ready to start in earnest.

Also, if you're an experienced kink person and have any advice for a new Dom (or any resources that helped you when you started), please send them my way! I know I've got a lot to learn, and any help learning it is always appreciated!