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To be blunt and to the point I'm in a vanilla, (mostly) sexless relationship, I'm unfulfilled and recently I just feel like I really miss a sort of authority figure in my life. A bit rudderless if that makes sense? I realise this makes me a bad person.
Ideally I'm looking for someone to just be some kind of authority figure to me, maybe a little discipline and structure? I'd like to please someone in some way, or make them happy. I enjoy being useful to someone who is willing to take advantage of that side of my personality. I really miss feeling submissive to someone, some days it's all I can think about, I can almost obsess over thinking about having a dominant person in my life to the point it stops me from actually getting on with my day.
I'm often described as lovely/nice, I'm very empathetic (I know) and have a good sense of humour and am extremely polite. I'm tall, fairly boyish/soft facial features but a kind of manly/thick set body with a decent amount of well trimmed body hair. I'm quite open when it comes to kinks, at the base of everything I enjoy following orders and instructions (I've checked and I'm not a robot) and I will happily indulge people in their kinks too.
I do enjoy being belittled and spoken down to, or being treated like I'm stupid. In terms of kinks I'm interested in:
- Following set tasks. Non-sexual as well as sexual
- Is being helpful/useful a kink?
- Orgasm control and denial
- Humiliation and degradation
- Edging
- Teasing
- Anal play
- Forced bi
- Light pain play
- Exhibitionism
- Domestic Servitude
Thanks so much if you're read all of this. I'd love to hear from you if you're at all intrigued.
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