Hello! Thanks for stopping by =)

I've known about bdsm for a looong time, so I'm certain this is something I need in my life and I just cannot have a "normal" relationship with someone. I'm not super experienced, I've met a few subs over the years but most didn't last long, also about half of them were online only. Still, I do know that I'm looking for something meaningful and to meet my future partner/submissive in life =)

Some things about me:

30 years old, quite introverted (not shy) and a bit of a homebody. I'd rather go on a car trip than travel abroad, and I really enjoying doing stuff at home: board games, crafts (I really really like making things on my own), movies, homemade meals, maybe a picnic in the living room if we're feeling silly. Been living in the UK (south-east) since right before the lockdown, so I haven't really experienced much of it yet.

I'm 178cm (5"10) and about 85kg (187lbs). So not exactly fit, but not overweight/fat either. I do need to exercise more, maybe we could go hiking? I've done it some times in the past and always enjoyed it, but that was a long time ago.

No drugs, smoking or any of that, and I would appreciate the same in return.

I'm an engineer and very much into anything tech related, love computers too. Video games are a big part of my life and I would love to find someone to share that with, specially if we can play together: from anything coop to chill games like stardew valley or ark.

You probably noticed that I haven't really mentioned anything sexual, that's because I'm really looking for a meaningful connection here (though maybe reddit is not the ideal place for that?). Sex is not really a priority of mine, and I just cannot even enjoy that if there's no connection between us. I want someone I can talk to about anything, someone I can have fun with while discussing the silliest of topics, let's stay on the phone till 3am arguing about why pancakes on the moon are better than on earth. I want someone who will think of me first when she sees a funny post in reddit and wants to share it. But also thinks of me first when she had a rough day at work and needs being comforted.

I didn't forget though, here's the important kinky stuff: bondage is my favorite kink and it's absolutely essential, I hope you can share my love for it. The next big ones are petplay (in particular kitten) and orgasm control/denial (I'm really into denial, specially when mixed with edging). I also enjoy protocol/rules.

Main limits for me are: asphyxiation, scat/pee, needles, blood.

About you:

Around 25-30 years old, cis female, unfortunately I don't feel comfortable with big age gaps, so below that would be too much for me.

Ideally in the UK, but I'm okay with online, as long as we know that it'll become a real-life thing at some point in the future, I couldn't do an LDR forever.

Bonus points if you're a night owl (so am I).

Wants something 100% monogamous.

You consider yourself a needy/clingy pet, I quite like and I promise you won't have to wait long for a reply as long as you do the same with me.

You are looking for a Dom/Master/Owner, I don't like sticking to one label only but I would say that mix describes me well. I want to be your owner, from taking responsibility for the important/difficult decisions in our dynamic to being your emotional support and always being there for you, I'm actually particularly good at this since I'm a very stable person mentally. I want you to eventually become my property, my collared submissive, and I will make my best to make sure you feel safe with me and comfortable with just being yourself.

Ideally our dynamic would progress to something 24/7 with time, I'm aware of how much trust and time this would take, but I'm happy to put in the effort. I don't have much experience with TPE, although it's something I'm curious of. The non-sexual side of BDSM is very important to me, even more important I would say.

If you've made it this far, thank you! I know that was a lot but I just had a lot to say. Chatting with me won't be that bad, I promise!

Anyway, send me a message if any of this caught your eye. Let's take things slow and get to know each other, voice calls while playing games are the best for this! =)