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Do you ever feel the need to just talk and laugh with people who are in the lifestyle? To not just hide that part that we've trained ourselves to hide so well. Usually it doesn't feel like too much effort to do that, not even a second thought is spent on it, but today for some reason it does. Flirting while knowing somebody is into the dynamic too makes it all the more fun.

So really I'm looking for somebody to hang out with. Preferably you happen do be dominant, such as I happen to be submissive. 'Happen to be', I really mean its an integral part of me, I don't 'happen to be' a submissive. But the light use of words was easy on the eyes, wasn't it?

I don't think I'm looking for 'my Dom'. Maybe I am, but that feels like a statement with nuances of commitment. And I don't want to do that. Not now, at least. Well ... maybe commitment is the wrong word, I'm not afraid to commit. I suppose it's more the small part that this message plays in your initial engagement with me. I don't want you to see me as your potential sub. What do I want you to see me as? I don't know.. maybe a fun interaction. If it's fun, there'll be more, right? If there's a lot... then... then we'll see. Maybe this is me chosing the difficult way of saying be cool man.

Ramble ramble, maybe you've noticed how this piece of text has loads of words, yet little information. It does. There's nothing formulaic about connections in my book. I'll try to be at least a tad less abstract and floaty though.

I like dominant people. Older than me too. Not a lot older, let's say... [28,35] as a guiding age range. I like to laugh, but not in the stand-up comedian joke-making sense. Back and forths are my comedic style of choice, and I bet you and I can be hilarious together if we click. I prefer taking my time over rushing, and hopefully you do too.

Now, in true last paragraph style, let me throw out a major plot twist. I don't actually want replies in my Reddit chat. It was all a ruse to implement a thin yet hopefully at least slightly effective filter for my inbox. Please send me a DM instead of a Reddit chat.