Hello!

After almost two years of being super responsible, working from home and avoiding crowds, I’m more than ready to get back out into the world to have a little bit of kinky adult fun and looking for someone who feels the same way. Let's make 2022 better than 2021 for the both of us (that's setting the bar low, I know)!

About me: 42-year-old, 5’7”, long haired Vietnamese-American software developer who is eager to talk about something besides software development. In the bedroom I enjoy being extremely dominant once I'm comfortable; I think D/s requires chemistry and trust to be established with a partner rather than something to be jumped into right off the bat so rest assured that my first message to you won't be "ADDRESS ME AS MASTER, SLUT" - we can work our way up to that :-D

What I'm Looking For: I'm open to either something casual or something serious (and anything that falls somewhere between). Looking for someone local to California at the very least, but open to chat with someone online if you're interested in meeting up in person at some point. Also would like to exchange pics early on if we hit it off because A: physical attraction is important and B: getting catfished suuuuuuuuuuuuucks

As you may have guessed, I'm most compatible sexually with women who are submissive in the bedroom and

• enjoy being treated roughly

• enjoy being degraded verbally

• are eager to please

Random SFW Facts

• My best karaoke song: Careless Whisper by George Michael. Good Old Fashioned Lover Boy by Queen is a close second.

• Last show watched: Peacemaker. I was a bit surprised by how much I enjoyed it and am anxiously awaiting the next season, not only for the plot but also for another opening dance sequence. Next show on my list is season two of Picard.

• Best Gift Received this Christmas: A Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson coloring book. I didn't ask for it, but it was so bizarre and hilarious I now know it was something I've needed all my life

• Last book read: I've been reading a lot about self-publishing erotica on Amazon lately so to research I got a Kindle Unlimited subscription and have been reading a bunch of trashy fantasy erotica. Yes, this is my deep dark secret I can only reveal to strangers on the internet :-D

• Last animal activity watched: My cat finally drinking out of his recently acquired special cat drinking fountain

Looking forward to hearing from you!