Like most of us on here, I'm looking for something more and unique than modern dating provides. Ideally looking for someone that I can connect with but with a relationship that centers around kink. I am definitely open to something more serious or more monogamous but also recognize this is reddit (ma'am this is a Wendy's) so the odds of meeting my person is low. But don't think that should preclude us from having some fun? In fact, think healthy exploration is important before settling down.

Ideally, I am looking for someone where there is a mutual attraction and we vibe with some kinks that overlap and want to explore with each other. Essentially, a low risk environment where we can be ourselves sexually and find what we like / don't like without the pressure of a romantic relationship on top of it. Open to people of varying experience but particularly attune to those new / looking to explore. I have a moderate amount of experience, initially through vanilla relationships and then with a few people on Reddit. One of my overarching kinks is sort of teaching and exploring alongside my partner so enjoy seeing you try new experiences and push your limits (within reason). As I mentioned, I'm open to seeing how the relationship develops organically and don't rule out something developing beyond the bedroom but that isn't the main priority. Just a low risk place for us to explore and have fun and see how this dynamic changes our relationship. But am open to hanging out outside the bedroom as well (grabbing drinks and exploring the city) and have found that vibing creates a better dynamic in terms of kink/sex.

In terms of the fun stuff, I am mostly a service dom with a side of daddy dom / brat tamer and a growing sadist inside me. I am open to most and most interested in hearing what things and kinks you like or want to explore. But I particularly enjoy orgasm torture and face fucking. Also like bondage, impact play, sensation play, public play, a small amount of sadism, some humiliation, restraint play, predicament bondage, some brat play, among others.

Outside of the bedroom, I live on the UWS and can host. I enjoy reading, exploring the city, finding unique NYC events or cool new bars. Craft beer and working out. I think that covers a lot of it for now. Hope to hear from you and don't be afraid to reach out. I will only bite after we discuss it. Best of luck in your search and exploration.