I'm the kind of guy who will go in tiny details of seemingly random/useless things when many others will just skim over them to get to the actual work. How many lightbulbs can I change in an hour? Zero. But when I change it, you can bet that the light bulb will be the highest quality, longest shelf life, smart bulb (that respects privacy), with the best support and extensibility options. It may be procrastinating/nerding, but it works for me and keeps me more focused on tasks that are more important in the world.

Okay... why are we talking about that?

Because wouldn't it be harder (and boring) to talk without an analogy? I'm telling you this because I'm the kind of person that takes time with things, with trust and sharing (I've gotten better thanks to my previous relationships). I can't immediately dispense kink actions to you, unless of course I happen to be in that state of mind.

I like to talk (a lot) and I like to get to know you, what inspires you, what makes you go. I'm not looking for a one off play, I'm looking for a relationship, kinky if possible. Speaking of kinks, I am a dom leaning switch who's interested in an online only relationship at the moment. Subs, pets, dommes, switches, all are welcome to DM.

A a dom, I am kind and caring while also being stern with some sadistic tendencies. I am creative with tasks/punishments and don't need you to have sex toys. I can get micro managing sometimes but I respond well to feedback. I am looking for girls over 21. It doesn't matter if you are new to kink or experienced as long as you have an expressive personality. If we click, I will likely chat with you everyday and not just about kinks. I am into all sensual kinks but I don't want to go over the list. It is something we can discuss later. My limits would be anything extreme or permanent or illegal or anything related to scat/piss/anything gross you think of. I take privacy and online safety seriously. Any public exposure is off limits. That means no sharing identifiable photos and mostly rules out any video interactions. That also means no messaging on the popular insecure apps (kik/snap/wickr/etc).

If you are cool with all of this, message me directly in chat. Despite the long post, and nerd flags, I can be fun to chat with and I like receiving texts and chatting with strangers.